Had another 1st date with another guy yesterday.  It was tons of fun.  He was very much a gentleman and I laughed SO much.  He's lives about an hour and a half from me, which given my typical schedule, could be a difficulty.  I had met this guy on-line about 2 years ago and we've been talking ever since.  We've talked of making plans a couple of times that never fail to fall through.  It's been me or my crazy life every time.  And, while I expected him to just give up and stop talking to me (as I wouldn't blame anyone for), we both just kept going as friends and went from there.  But, I got some time yesterday and planned on going for the day to just hang out.  While I still managed to be about 2 hours behind schedule, I was determined to make it and I am so glad I did.  We just hung out really, nothing over the top.  But, it was really nice.  I went to his place and we talked for about an hour.  We walked to this little sports bar down the road from him, ate and watched the start of the Bronco game, and then went back to his place to watch the rest.  As the afternoon turned to evening, we ended up just cuddling on the couch while we watched the game and watched the snow move in.  It was kind of weird because he knows my budget and so at the end of it all, offered to give me some money for gas as it was about a 3 hr round trip for me.  But, I didn't take it.  Because weather started to turn nasty about the time I had to go, he made sure to tell me more than once to please call him and let him know I made it home okay.  He hugged me, kissed me goodbye, and I was on my way.  He sent me a text shortly after telling me it was great to finally meet me and that he hoped I knew that he thought I looked amazing.  I called when I got back to tell him I made it and wished him a good week.  He started laughing and told me I was crazy if I thought it was going to take that long before we got to talk again.  It was fun and yay for another good date....FINALLY!  lol 

If anyone is interested, I am bringing a new site online in the next couple of days. Development should be pretty rabid over the next few days and I hope to have some forum containers, user level blogging,  and profiles online by Monday. User registration should be active by then at the latest. I am still spinning things in my head but tentatively the focus will be lifestyles of the married and single. The good, the bad, and the ugly on both sides, from both sides. I will be running polls regularly if traffic picks up to see what people would like to see most.

http://www.ifanyoneislistening.com

To all to the folks here that helped me through my chit, I thank you. Knowing you are not alone, can have a big on your growth and recovery, and the ojar gang made me feel that I was always among close friends. Cheers to you all!!

Just wanted to say "Goodbye Everyone!"

Thanks Ojar. And my friends (you know who you are). I am not doing premium... I've sorta moved away from relationship topics. Joined a mountain biking forum instead so I can talk like a gear head with people in my area about trails and mountains and stuff.

I don't know if I've given up on relationships or if I'm just not interested anymore?!
i'm sure it'll come up again in my life-- someone to date or I'll fall for someone. I pray taht I'll have the heart to love fully and trust. I think I will, when the time is right.

Thanks again!

Tree

Just a fun, nice date to dance with and kiss at midnight on New Year's Eve?My friends throw a huge incredible party every year and I even snagged an extra invite!!

Yes I can go alone and will have a good time, but still......

Blu

What do you do when someone tells you that you will always be the one that got away?  I just am not even sure what my reaction should be.  Should I say something back?  Not?  We're talking via email at the moment and I don't know what to say to him.

I am thinking about it


I saw some info
http://www.datingagain101.com/startgroup.html

Thats how I got my ExWife

If it worked 1 time

maybe it can work agan


Maybe better this go round ?

 

So, I am taking advantage of the little time I have left on this site to brag a bit. 

So, a few weeks ago, I was asked out by two guys in one weekend.  I had to bail on my date with the 1st guy due to a sick kid.  His behavior since hasn't been quite what I would hope for and so I find myself not willing to make the extra effort to make time for a second date.  Oh well, no worries.

Last night I finally got a date with the other guy.  It was really great.  It wasn't anything big as we kind of planned last minute.  We went to see "I Am Legend" and that was all we did.  Just the same, he was sweet, funny, respectful...It was a good date.  And, in all honesty, I haven't had a good 1st date in a while so it was encouraging.  It was a lot of fun really.  We have a lot in common.  There were no uncomfortable moments.  We get a long really well. 

When we met up in the parking lot, he gave me a big hug and I totally didn't mind.  It was nice.     He was teasing me because I actually was getting ready to pay for my ticket for the movie.  He couldn't believe I was going to.  He paid and strange enough for me, I didn't mind.  It was one of the few times someone has just paid and I haven't felt weird about it.  We saw a preview for a movie that comes out this summer and he was telling me that we'd have to go see it...I could take him since I was so thinking I was going to pay for myself this time.  lol  At the end of the night, we went outside and he put his arm around me.  Other than the hug at the start, that was his first real attempt at touching me.  I was actually glad he didn't try and get all touchy-feely in the movie.  On the way out of the theater, he thanked me for a fun evening.  We said we would definatly have to go out again soon and he said he hoped that it wouldn't take as long to get a date again.  I promised it wouldn't.  He gave me a big hug when we got to his car.  We talked for a second and he hugged me again...We were laughing and talking and he told me I can take him out again whenever I want.  I told him the next movie would be my treat.  He laughed, said, "We'll see...Probably not."  But, I thought it was funny.  He was very much a gentleman.  We went our seperate ways.  On the way home, I got a text telling me I looked really nice, he had fun, and he can't wait to go out again.  I called my friends (they are a married couple) and the guy told me that he could even hear me smiling.  I even woke up smiling!  It was a really good 1st date and I haven't had one of those in forever.  Yay me!!

I was watching TV and Channel Surfing

There was Lynda Hamilton - Sara Conner from Terminator

She was in Hospital and then Her Boyfriend Left and Cleaned out Her Checking/Credit cards.

She was locked out of Her Apartment for being 2 days late on Rent

No Car

No One to Help Her


That is who I am Looking for a Lady that needs help !


I had to change the channel because I was mad that She could not get in Her Apartment and about Her ExBoyfriend

I will give them, if you Ojar Ladys come to my House and stay
 

There were Two Women I saw Today

It is Cold here - FREEZING

Yet they had thier Boobers almost Falling Out

I was thinking - It was not Just Chance that they got a way to small Shirt with the Top out

Because with FREEZING Temp. Everyone else was covered up with heavy Coats and Sweaters etc

So they must *Want* everybody to look at and admire thier Boobers

How much Looking is Ok ? I wonder

 

A Charlie Brown Christmas
Him: The fella who never misses this show is probably a classic guy who already knows how to dress and laugh. Slip him a CD by Vince Guaraldi (who did the jazzy numbers on the show) as a gift.
Her: If your girl loves this show, deep down, she may want to don a black turtleneck and get existential—this show has a message. But she always has time to dance (who can resist that music!) and maybe she can make clouds of dirt like Pigpen.

A Christmas Story
Him: Aww... He’s got a wistful, nostalgic sense of humor and can probably remember every Christmas morning growing up. But, more importantly, there’s more than a slight chance that he didn’t get that one certain gift that every other kid on his block got — the Radio Flyer wagon or the super-cool robot set — and can still remember that deprivation NOW. Will you be the one to indulge him now?
Her: Your romantic partner is something of a happy medium: corny, yet cool. Not cool in a desperately hip way, but subversive enough to keep things interesting. She hasn’t forgotten what the wonders of childhood were like—and doesn’t want to.

Bad Santa
Him: If this is your guy’s favorite seasonal show, then hold your horses. This guy is the Anti-Santa who would probably be happy to make a bunch of gift deliveries with a bottle of Jack Daniels. His ideal vision of Christmas probably involves telling little kids they don’t need Barbies or that Mickey isn’t a real Mouse and that he lives next to a 7-Eleven instead of the North Pole. Run, run, run. Unless you’re happy spending your time with the embodiment of Life’s Little Destruction Book...
Her: Most likely, your lady was waiting for a movie like this long before it came out. Finally, someone told a Christmas story without much of a moral... and with lots of cringing along the way. Not one for nostalgia, your girl probably wants to order Chinese food rather than prepare a feast. If you are equally dark in your outlook, well, merry, merry!

How the Grinch Stole Christmas
Him: You don’t have to worry about this guy at all. He’s offbeat, sure, but he’s got a good heart. He probably loves celebrating Christmas with a delightfully creative and witty sense of humor instead of tradition. He’ll probably surprise you with completely novel ways of marking the holiday season.
Her: The girl who loves this one is a sucker for ritual, and why not? We all know what happens to the Grinch, but the magic is in the retelling. The Whoville song is treacly and boring, but the Grinch’s theme, with jazz glissandos and rich baritone, make it a yearly must-see. But you must ask this woman: Does she identify with the Grinch... or the Grinch’s poor dog? That will give you some important clues!

It’s A Wonderful Life
Him: If your guy likes Frank Capra’s all-time classic, you can put good money on the fact that he’s as classically appealing as Jimmy Stewart—and probably as thoughtful, too. Thoughts count a lot with this kind of guy; make sure yours are up to snuff.
Her: Like Crowded House sang, “Wherever there is comfort, there is pain,” and don’t your baby know it! She gets It’s a Wonderful Life as it was meant to be: not a sing-songy holiday card, but a deeply sad reflection on dreams deferred. She’s a deep-thinker… and probably a keeper.

Rudolph, The Red-Nosed Reindeer
Him: Any guy who picks this stop-animation classic is probably as unique as little Rudolph is. He probably celebrates Christmas — and lives his life — with a playful and creative streak. I mean, this is a guy who lives for the island of misfit toys and the Bumble! He’s probably quite a character.
Her: Yikes. Easily the most anesthetized and goofy of the Xmas specials, Rudolph has the subtlety of a “Hang in There!” cat poster. Repetitious and cloying, it goes down like a bowl of red frosting. Your girl might be cute, but she’ll put antlers on your dog and giggle like she was the first to think of it. Consider yourself warned!

Santa Claus is Coming to Town
Him: The guy who loves this one is manly enough to really get down with Christmas and the classics, especially if he’s a Fred Astaire fan. This guy truly loves the holiday. You will celebrate every possible tree-lighting, sidewalk chorus group, eggnog-pouring moment, and you will do it with a smile on your face.
Her: If your baby’s favorite is this one, she’s probably a Goth chick. No other Santa origin myth is quite so dark. Sure, Fred Astaire narrates, but St. Nick as an unwanted orphan? Hunted like a criminal? We knew Santa’s psyche was complicated, but we didn’t know he needed therapy.