my update lvaughn24: Its been a while since i have been on. I did try giving him another chance, but i couldnt trust him. He has done to much damage. I was constantly questioning where he was and what he was doing and accusing him of cheating. I was miserable and made him miserable to. I am still in love with him and he is being cruel and harsh again. Also he is back with the other woman it didnt take long. Friday is our 4 year anniversary any tips on making it through this, it is the first anniversary since we have been separated. :'(
Re:my update Ellena: My four-year anniversary is May 19. My husband moved out, at my request, this weekend. I still expect the anniversary to totally suck. I am going to take the day off work. No need to try to focus or get work done. I am going to surround myself with friends and probably do a little drinking. I am also going to take some time to remember the good times. Life is a journey. Just because we are now on different paths does not lessen wonderfulness of the part of the journey we shared. Hope that helps.
