Re:Breakin' up is hard to do.....
.

Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... bill23: Hey Spec, I'm so sorry that things didn't work out. Half of me is glad to have you back as I used to follow your posts quite frequently back when I was in stalker mode but the other half feels terrible that you're back... you seem like a genuinely good person and I have no doubt that someone as smart, pretty, and downright nice as you will soon find exactly what (and who!) you're looking for... and then you can come back and gloat how perfect everything is while all of us just sit back giving you the ol evil, jealous eye... :) All the best!
Breakin' up is hard to do..... Spectrum: I'm not sure why I'm posting this, I guess I'm just a little bit down.

This morning I broke up with my first real post-divorce love. I moved to Houston only to discover that the man who waved everything I've ever wanted under my nose really just wasn't interested in any kind of meaningful relationship.... Or at least, not with me. Hmph. :-[

After two and a half months of "wait-and-see-pudding," I finally decided that it is better to be alone than to be in love with someone who neither feels the same way nor has the intestinal fortitude to voice it out loud. The realization that I've (un?)knowingly been someone's "friend with benefits" for the last 10 weeks wasn't a pretty one.

I'm off to the dog park now with "Big D." Thanks, God, for my job and my dog. Thanks for my true friends. And thanks for ojar.

Spectrum.


Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... gulfcoast: Keep your chin up girly.....life gets better......ofcourse you know this.....just have to get through the low times....lemme know if you need someone to talk to....I'm here......
Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... MadorSad: Spec

Keep it real, I do not think you are asking to much ;D

MoS
Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... AmyMarie1972: Hey spec,
You made the right decision. You hang in there and stay strong. You are a great person who deserves the best. Only fools dont see that.
Amy

Copyright © 2009 :: ojar.com :: 2009 Nov 21 7:28:01