Just hate him LettinGo: I cannot stand the person he has become. Does anyone ever look at/think about their ex and wondered "What the %#&! was I thinking?!!!!"
He is such an idiot. He is so mean. He is sweet as pie, but as soon as he doesn't get his way, he turns into a monster and says the meanest things. I act like they don't bother me, but I know that they eat away at me inside. He knows my insecurities, and uses them to attack me.
Funny thing is, there is SO much I can say about him but I ALWAYS bite my tongue out of hopes in maintaining a civil relationship for the kids.
Here I am ... STILL trying to be "the better person" in this and still getting screwed.
:-[
Re:Just hate him LettinGo: You know what ... I am not done.
WTF is wrong with him?? WTF was wrong with me for marrying him?
How can my MIL, who knows everything that her son has done, say things like when she buys the kids clothing they are not allowed to wear it with ME? They LIVE with me! Who is suffering there? So she will buy them clothes that they will wear two days per month when they go to HIS house?
She gave us a monetary gift 11 months before we broke up. US. Now, suddenly the money was intended for her SON only. We had paid off our mini-van which I traded in in February because it was falling apart and I needed something better on gas, being a single mom now ... and she said I should have asked if she wanted the money back that I got for a trade in? Is she kidding me?
And the house ... we won't even get into that.
I am sure I will be back to vent more.
Oh, and btw ... she is mad because I didn't call to say thank you for the Mother's Day card she sent me. Funny thing is, I DID call - they weren't home - I left a message. However, SHE never called to say thank you for the TWO cards my kids sent her.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Re:Just hate him jjbswest: I cannot stand the person he has become. Does anyone ever look at/think about their ex and wondered "What the %#&! was I thinking?!!!!"
Yes, i have had that exact thought. The truth is that they have become different people. They aren't the same people we married. I told my ex (he cheated), I had the best part of him. Now, she has the person he has become, the lying cheater. as far as MIL, stay away. it's not even worth it anymore.
Re:Just hate him purplestar278: I wonder all the time. He truly isn't the man I married. I question myself daily but I have to learn to move past that. My boys and I are too important. We don't deserve to be used like this. I can't allow this to continue. That helps me stay strong, although it doesn't work all the time. I'm getting stronger though!
If you need to talk, I'm here.
Dana
Re:Just hate him jtim10: I'm trying my best to take a "Hate the sin, love the sinner" approach to my situation, but must admit right now it's not working!! &^%^& the 878656--tch I hope she gets a wicker basket full of snakes for her birthday!!! I feel mean today!
