Dating for sex
Do you think that MOST people looking for dates are mainly just looking for someone to have sex with and maybe a little extra companionship? Or do you think that MOST people date because they are looking for Mr. of Mrs. Right?
Re:Dating for sex jillieb44: I could be in an exclusive relationship with someone who may NOT be Mr. Right and have sex, yeah, for the companionship and affection primarily, without him having to be *the one* or be interested in *marrying*.
My opinion.
I will NOT, however, just date around and have sex with just anyone; I need to get to know and trust them first; sex is very personal with me and I need to care about the person also. Do I have to be head over heels *in love* to do that? No. But mutual respect and caring goes a long way.
Jillie
Re:Dating for sex hudson: But don't you think the whole point of dating is to get to a point where each person feels comfortable having sex?
Re:Dating for sex AmyMarie1972: I think that as long as the other person knows this then there is nothing wrong with it. It does need to be made clear from the start though.
I think that it is fifty fifty on whether people are dating to look for Mr/Mrs Right or dating just to have some fun with no real plans on a serious relationship developing.
Amy
Re:Dating for sex voidinside: Ummm...doesn't this coincide with the 'Playa' thread? :P
I guess if two adults could stick to an agreement to meaningless sex that would be ok.
I've always been the one-on-one, all-or-nothing sort of guy, but if approached with that option, I don't think I'd turn it down these days.
However, I know for me, that kind of thing just doesn't happen.
I guess it would depend on the situation, but most guys would definitely be looking for a bed buddy and most women would be looking for Mr. Right.
