STBXW is much happier....... jtim10: The STBXW called to ask about a bill she is supposed to pay. While she was on the phone she makes it a point to tell me how she is much happier and more content and how every day she is much more sure that she made the right choice in leaving me etc....... She has done this now about three times. I have been just saying things like "Good, I'm glad your happy" and stuff like that. This time I asked her if she was trying to convince me or herself of her happiness? No answer. She then started in on the whole I didn't cheat on you, I didn't lie to you routine, which I quickly but calmly stoped her and said that "it really dosn't matter now. Your happy, I'm doing good, see you when we sign the papers. Bye" and hung up. :) Whats the deal with her making it a point to tell me how much happier she is without me? I think it's just immaturity myself.
Re:STBXW is much happier....... Cowboy12:
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This time I asked her if she was trying to convince me or herself of her happiness? No answer.
I'm with you here brother, I have got to the stage like you, were I stay nice and calm, and listen to her b/s and just ignore it. Let them figure out their own mess...
my stbx is either angry all the time, or sweet as pie, [this is usually when she needs money...."> :o
Re:STBXW is much happier....... jtim10: I hear you. Mine hasn't asked for money, yet anyway. I'm sure she has hit her dad up plenty though. She could blow a million dollars and not tell you where it went! Mine hasn't shown any sweet side either! LOL
Or anger or anything else for that matter, just like nothings wrong.
Re:STBXW is much happier....... ChiefWiggum: Nice work jtim, I'm happy to see how calm you are with her! Have you been in contact with her family again?
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Re:STBXW is much happier....... jimloveless: it's good to feel in control to some degree at least, doesn't it, JT? i have a hard time giving my stbx anything more than an eyeroll at this point. and she's lucky to get that much.
keep sharing, man
