Access to stbxw's email...

Access to stbxw's email... oncehappy: Man, talk about a curse...my stbxw's email was way, way too easy to access and after our seperation about 15 months ago she's never changed her password! Anyhow, I have way too much information and I'm really pissed off about her affair(s). I know I shouldn't look into her email's but she has lied so much that I feel I have to in order to keep the ropes straight since our 10-year-old-daughter is with her half the time.


Re:Access to stbxw's email... sourpuss: don't torture yourself.

unless you have a genuine and immediate concern for your child's wellbeing, you're only hurting yourself.

my stbx wouldn't know the truth if it bit him on the @ss, so i just assume he's lying. i really don't need proof.

what will you use the information for anyways? i'm not sure what you're doing is entirely legal...
Re:Access to stbxw's email... BabygirlM: it will kill you.....trust me. i have my ex's password because we shared a computer (he stupidily hasnt changed it) and some of the stuff i read HURTS
Re:Access to stbxw's email... mydarkdreams: I thank god that my ex doesn't communicate with his girlfriend via email. Because I know his passwords too and I *know* I'd look - I am horrible like that..

It's easy to look and hard not to.. but it's more hurtful to KNOW than it is to wonder.
Re:Access to stbxw's email... sourpuss: i should probably admit that i did in the beginning, too, but have stopped. it only hurt me.

couldn't even call and bawl him out, because then he'd know i was sneaking a peek and would have changed the password....