Re:slowing things in new relationship AmyMarie1972: Hey Dino,
In the same boat as you. I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. Dont want to build up my feelings either. What I am doing is working on the friendship that we are building together rather than the romance and just seeing what happens naturally.
Hope it works out for you
Amy
slowing things in new relationship Dino: well its almost 6 months now for me since my ex left and I have a new girl in my life.
I like this girl but I really don't want to become too attached to her too quickly. Not talking about physically, already been there. What's the best way to go about this. Dig deep ojarians, I know there is good advice out there.
Is it possible, or do you think our characters too strongly influence our feelings? Should I just go with the flow and see where things take me?
Re:slowing things in new relationship Dino: Thanks Poetry
Yes I need to balance things. Just have to make sure I don't get carried away with something new.
Re:slowing things in new relationship Chey: Hmmmm you know what...sometimes over thinking something kills the joy of just being able to FEEL again. So my advice..take it slow, enjoy it for what it is, build a friendship, and see where the tide takes you.
I hope you're having a wonderful time.
Re:slowing things in new relationship Dino: I work remotely so I fly in/fly out. I guess it means the time we do spend together is pretty intense because we are just all over each other.
It helps though because when i fly out i have a week to be away from her and calm down.
I think maybe it's just me being a big blouse.
Amy - how do you just work on being friends?
