Re:Really Need some advice / Can she trust me again? schpolo15: thanks for the replies, anyone else ever been here? is just space the answer. should i wait for her to make the move?
Re:Need some advice / Can she trust me again? schpolo15: i know what you mean. your in a little different boat than i am but i feel closer to her now than i ever have. i guess its true that you sometimes hurt the ones you love the most. its just tough to sit it out hopeing she will be able to give you the chance to show her she can trust you again
Re:Need some advice / Can she trust me again? Ilosther: I got the same problem, I need to be near her, and I always catch myself telling her how much I love her. I've definitely cut back on that talk because to her, they are just words. I always say actions speak louder than words, so I'm just being me, being as nice as possible and caring. I still haven't been able to give her all that space, only because we raise a child together. I have taken him away for a weekend, so that hopefully helped.
But does space mean moving out of the same house? She wouldn't abandon our son, nor would I, so i still don't know exactly this space issue. But I do know I don't ask her to stay anymore, I don't smother her with my words. But for some reason, I feel closer than ever to her, both physically and emotionally.
Re:Need some advice / Can she trust me again? sourpuss: wanting her to know how hard you are trying to win her back isn't really "giving her space" now is it?
i know it's very hard, but you will have to back off and behave like you really are "just friends" and let her make the first move.
has she asked you not to contact her at all? if she has, you need to respect that. if not, then go ahead and touch base here and there, but as friends, not as a potential boyfriend.
and don't worry, she knows you are trying. trust me.
Re:Need some advice / Can she trust me again? riversandlakes: sourpluss, i think he said, "She has never said we will never be together again, and didnt say she wouldent go to lunch either."
though you are probably reading too much into what she is NOT saying...
if you love her that much, tell her so. show her so. win her back.
didn't you tell her:
i've never cared about anyone like her before
I know she loves me
