Re:New ColoHill: I recently have gone through the same thing. Believe me, some days it hurts so much you might just want to scream. The emotional rollar coaster is totally normal and actually good for you. This is what allows us to move past the hurt stage and into the angry stage that allows us to take action for ourselves. I can also tell you that you have come to the right place. This is an aswome site you share your opinions with fairly neutral 3rd parties. You can get support, advice, vent, whatever. If you ever need to chat, you can send me a message. My kids aren't as small as yours (3 & 5) but I can tell you that making them your priority will really help. Focus on you and your kids and what will make you all better. You deserve to be a bit selfish now.
Re:New :broken:: [quote"> His excuse was that he had been out of love with me for the past two years, but never said a word. [/quote">
Bless his heart! :-* He sacrificied for two years and never said a thing! You should be thankful you know...
::)
I'm sorry, I'm having a rather hard day, a bit irritable. But that's what it sounds like doesn't it? :-\
Re:New jillieb44: Love how you put that, PenguinMama. So true. It passes like a kidney stone. ;D But once it does, life is sweet again.
Jillie
Re:New penguinMAMA: I too had the deer in the headlights look when My first said he didn't love me. Trust me, it passes like a kidney stone, but eventually it won't ouch so much. You have an awesome support here, come any time and just vent...it helps so very much.
Re:New Blueyes424: blizbth~
Yes, feeling like you are riding a roller coaster that you want to get off of is a normal reaction to something like this. I am SO sorry that you are going through this with 2 small children. I understand how difficult it can be, but try and keep your head up and know in your heart of hearts that things will get better and that you will pull through this.
We are all here for you whenever you need us, and if you need someone to vent or cry on, we are all here!! You have found a WONDERFUL place for support, and we will all do what we can to help!
BIG Hugs~
Blue
