Re:The case of I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him... sourpuss: you'll get there.
Re:The case of I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him... rhondam71: I'm trying to figure out why your friend would tell you these things. Regardless...it should be common sense for her to stay zipped unless, as you said, it harmed your children.
Hope it all works out.
Re:The case of I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him... tyrogers: Good for you! Time will fast forward on its own....before you know it, you will think someone hit the skip button on the DVD player and you missed some scenes!
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BBHF
Re:The case of I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him... Stacib: Well I just drew the line with my friend. I told her that even though I ended this marriage it was still painful to hear these things and that I didn't want to know anymore. I told her unless it was something that could possible put my children in harms way I didn't want to know. I think I will be better off. I just wish I could get past this emotional state. If only I could fast forward time.....
Re:The case of I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him... justmenow: Oooh! I had this same problem so this all sounds very familiar. Except the problem was that he feels the need to tell me all the intricate details of his life now. Funny he was never that forthcoming when we were married...
I had to simply draw the line and sometimes even get rude and say "J, I don't really want to hear about what's going on with you." You've got to take control, kill that curiosity and cut him off completely. That's what is going to be best for you in the end until you get through the true and final emotional divorce.
As of now, I honestly don't care what he's doing with his life. It is of no interest to me and I am wholeheartedly thankful that I am no longer a part of it. I wish you strength in this area. Good luck!
