Hanging On the Dream klvshoes: Hi-im new-i really like this posting site-My husband left me and my 3 yr old and 7 month old two months ago. He has been a alcoholic most of our marriage-but ofcourse everything gets worst when children come in. I'm 28 and this man is all i have ever known. He moved out because he didn't want to hear me bitch about his 3rd DUI in four years. I don't know why I would bitch-why should I be angry-He's so unbelievable. The best was yet to come-I was hoping that he would go to his outpatient program and I would go to counseling and may be by the grace of God we could work it out. No to be. He's been calling a friend of mine and his-she left her husband-she has two kids the exact same age as mine and best of all-she's a barmaid at the local bar he goes to all the time. Everytime he has visitation with my kids - he takes them to her apartment-and all he has to say to me is "when is the house going up for sale" because now he's supporting me and my kids and her and her kids-what a freakin asshole. I am so angry today.
Re:Hanging On the Dream twobeautifulkids: I can sympathize. I was/am married to an alcoholic who left me. What a blow that was. I stayed by his side through everything and yet he had the nerve to leave me. Still baffles me that he'd do that. ((HUGS)) to you.