Miss her or her body? Ilosther: Ok, this is a somewhat weird post, so I'll try and take it easy with my words cuz my thoughts are just all over the place.
My wife is moving out, needs space to figure things out, fine. My problem is that I'm so attracted to her, only person I've been intimate with in my life. Thing is, we are so alike, or at least that's how I felt. In some ways, we were like twins, personality wise. And having sex with her was great(no comparison to others obviously, neither for her-hopefully she's been faithful, and she says she has been, and I believe her, and there will be no dating others during our separation). But now, with her moving out, sex will move out with it. We've had sex a couple times since she first mentioned she wants out of marriage, but it was purely physical. Fine.
My question is, am I just addicted to her body, and fear losing that warm embrace, the kisses, the sex? If we were such alike, then the personality still stays with me, hopefully, then it's just the actual part of having another physical body near me that I will miss?
I dunno if any of this makes sense...I'll just vent.
Re:Miss her or her body? Suddenly Single: Very interesting - I think only time will tell if it is really the person or the body? Really....it could be both? right?
How long were you married?
Re:Miss her or her body? Ilosther: 4 years married, together for almost 11. I agree, time will tell. Just feel life is better with 2. Not like I can hug myself. I still feel it is both that I miss.
