Re:overanalyzing?? mophead123: Could he be possibly going through a rough patch at work and be a little stressed out do you think? You don't need to think that his actions completely reflect his feelings towards you or his behavior is due to something that has changed within your relationship. Do you spend every day together? Could it be that thsi is too much for him too quick? I don't know your timetable or how long you have been together so it's hard to make a judgement.
Personally, I would wait it out and see. It could just be one of those weeks. I seriously doubt he will bring you to his family's place and leave you as a wallflower. It sounds as if he really cares about you and loves you, but I understand so much your hesitancy and fear. It plagues us all. Hang in there, at least through the weekend. I am sure it will give him and you to spend some good holiday time together.
overanalyzing?? laurie007: I have posted on here a few times and you guys have always helped...i'm having one of those weeks i guess...my new bf has been acting very weird this week. He doesn't seem to want anything to do with me, jwould rather come home from work and go to sleep, doesn't care that when he gets home i want a hug and a kiss...like we used to. he used to be so excited to see me and this week it's like he all of a sudden has got comfortable and doesn't care. i will text him and call him during the day, he dosn't even take the time to text me back, i can understand not calling me back. i did talk to him this morning and he wasn't even happy like he normally is to talk to me. we are going to his family's for the fourth and i'm nervous i'll be stuck standing off on my own, not really knowing anyone, and his used to be good sensor of including me is gone...is he tired of me? should i worry? am i crowding him? he makes comments that we never are apart...he was used to his alone time and doing what he wanted to..now all of a sudden he has a full fledged gf. he has told me how much he loves me and he wants me and only me...am i reading too far into this?? i just needed to get it out and hear any feedback anyone may have...i'm lonely, ido'nt want to get left again, i know this man is my soulmate - he knows it too so why has he acted like this???
Re:overanalyzing?? laurie007: I know he has had some stress with work and co workers, and he's applying for a much larger position in his company....he's also been very quick to get ill (snaps at the stupidest thigns sometimes) hopefully work has a lot to do with it. it is just very hard on me to sit back and wait. i am with him every night after he gets off work (which he works 10 hr days in teh hot SC sun-so he's exhausted) and then he has to make time for me in the exhaustion! we've been together four months totally in love, and in the past 4 months barely spent any time apart. i get my space from him because i get off work a lot earlier than he does...maybe he's not getting enough him time...i don't know. i woudl like to see some acknowlegement of my sweet text i send him...he didn't even mention the one i sent him yesterday. we used to flirt back and forth all day-now...nothing. his ex is coming into town to stay with us and that's this week...well he's been acting liek this this week...for the most part. i know he doesn't wnat to be with her (atleast he says so) and she's not that cute anyway...but is there something in him pushing me away so he'll be "wanted' in her eyes and we'll have had a bad week so he won't want to really show his emotions about me to her and that will be okay because we have been not touchy all week...does that make sense?
Re:overanalyzing?? jillieb44: So why does his ex need to stay with you when she comes into town??? :o
Not having his own space and time for himself could be it; the ex coming could be it.
Don't know. If he won't tell you, then you're kind of stuck.
Jillie
Re:overanalyzing?? laurie007: she kinda invited herself, she's traveling and needed somewhere to crash for the night. i dont' think he wants her though, she's an ex for a reason...i think though he may be pushing me away thsi week because he doesn't want to feel uncomfortable in front of her huggin all over me but doesn't wnt to tell me lets not act too huggy kissy...hmmm i don't know. i guess we'll find out. i don't want to say anything to him because i dont' want to start a fight--him thinking i'm reading too far into things...i guess stupid time will tell...ugh ::)
