when the ex comes back legionuvdoom: I know everyone has a different experience, but I was curious about something. For the people who have been going through this crap for awhile, and in some cases the ex comes back, usually after ur already over them, and involved with your own life. Do u find that the ex comes back because they realize the mistake they made, or is it because the relationship with the om/ow didn't work out?
Re: when the ex comes back riversandlakes:
"I did some soul searching and realized that I don't think it is the 8 months of her getting boned by another man that is unforgivable it is the words and comparisons and the justifications she used to do it that is unforgivable and unforgettable."
Your soul-searching found the truth. it was the level she could stoop that was shocking. the grabbing of even thin air moleculese to justify cheating. it made me wonder, "who the h*ll is this?!"
my ex didn't tell much about her past before me, but at that time i thought she did, and i guess i should have seen this red flag. so i guess she has shared herself before me - no big deal.
it's the lies, and the lack of remorse...
Re: when the ex comes back riversandlakes:
i've asked that Q sometime back. it seems ojarians have not reached that stage yet :-\
i too would like to know very, very much.
though my fellow heartshattered once told me 80% of those who cheat on their partners will not end up well. they will continue their "search" for something only they know...
the other 20% must have done something very blessed...
Re: when the ex comes back SoccerGirl: Sometimes I wonder if I'm the only one here who was dumped but not for another person. ???
I wonder if it would be easier if he had left me for someone else.
Riversandlakes are u saying... legionuvdoom: that twenty percent of the cheaters find happiness? i'm not disputing you, just curious if that's what you meant? I think that blows if that's the case, they should be miserable.
