Need some advice PLZ! whytekissez: Well I an somewhat seeing this guy... he has a g/f... but he says he loves me... and only uses her for her car since we both live in different towns.. he calls her all sorts of names... well the other night he was at a party with me and he got mad after guys kept text messaging me and he left... i followed him all over town.. askin him if he care about me... and he kept sayin not nemore... b/c i supposivily talk to too many other guys... finally i asked him if he was scared that someone could actually care for him and love him like i do... he didnt say nethin but his eyes teared up... then when we got back to my apt. he said why do u care about me.. and sayin who cares i wont be here ne longer im gunna be dead... thats when i broke down in tears... and he started to cry too after i told him i loved him.. and that i didnt want him to walk out of my life like all the other guys have done and break my heart.. he told me he wasnt like the other guys.. but why arent we together? i wanna be with him so bad and i told him that.. if i lose him i dont know what im going to do... after we both cried for awhile he came up to me and kissed me and huged me for a long time... he then stayed the night.. and the next day when he left i asked him if he cared about me.. he said what do u think.. i told him i wasnt sure at this point.. and he said of course i care about you... he was suppose to call me last night but didnt so i dont know whats wrong.. or if he will call me back.. im so confused... help!
Re: Need some advice PLZ! riversandlakes: Have you read the TOS on above 21 and below 35 onboard?
If you have, this guy is too immature for you, baby. Keep high, trust yourself, that the one for you will find you one day, and shall be nowhere near this punk's values.
he has a girlfriend. unless it's a non-serious one, he didn't have to bad-mouth anyone. it was acting.
"got mad after guys kept text messaging me " :D
DO NOT DIE for anyone's worthless heart.
Re: Need some advice PLZ! Lome: Sweety,
You are hanging with a guy that is using someone for their car?
And this is ok because you love him?
What is he using you for: sex, friendship, power?
Real men...not young boys....do not do these sort of things.
He is not healthy for you. He is jealous because others are showing interest in you?
Listen, by best male friend phones and emails me often....I email several males friends daily....and my husband is not jealous.
Why? He trusts me. Your bf does not trust you. again, Why?
[quote"> [tt"> he said why do u care about me.. and sayin who cares i wont be here ne longer im gunna be dead..[/tt"> [/quote">
Look, anyone who says that they are going to die because of the end of a casual relationship, and yes I do mean casual...you are not married or in a long term adult relationship...needs mental help!
If they do not love themselves enough to cherish this life....then they can never, ever love you the way that you need to be loved.
You are unique and worth a healthy relationship. Love yourself...drop this loser. He is a playa and a scrub!
and he ain't gonna change!
Re: Need some advice PLZ! Samarra: Sorry...but he is a playa..as we say here. I've seen this type before so many times....used to fall for them myself...before I got hurt one too many times.
They seem to have a commonality...the abiliy to call forth tears on cue...it seems so sensitive and caring right? Wrong....don't be fooled.
Look at the facts:
A) He has a girlfriend
B) He has a girlfriend that he badmouths
C) Isn't willing to drop girlfriend for you.
D) And last but not least....He HAS a girlfriend.
If you want to get seriously hurt by this guy...stay. Don't be too surprised if there are 2 or 3 other women on the side Mr. Sensitive is playing to.
Sorry hon to be so blunt...but nothing good can come from this situation.
Re: Need some advice PLZ! Discarded: Whytekissez have you read your first sentance? That should send up red flags the size of Texas.
Never get involved with anyone who says they have a significant other. Never get involved with anyone who says they are using someone else.
You are setting yourself up for a huge hurt. He's talking behind his girlfriends back while using her car to see you. Put yourself in that girls shoes in a month or so when you are letting him use your car.
I'm going to be blunt here and you may not like to hear it, but for your own good I'm going to tell you:
He's a user. He'll take what he can while he can and leave the pieces behind when he can't use you anymore.
Discarded
