Re: It was an eventful evening down2basics: Woot! Woot! Way 2 Go Thinkin! You Da Man!
It took a lot of courage and resolve to do what you did - hats off to you! You did great and I for one (in addition to all the others!) am damned proud of you!
Have a great weekend my Ojar Super Hero!
d2b
Re: It was an eventful evening Thinkin: Bowing to acidflask, Thanks, thank you very much, by the way that name is pretty cool. Your right it does come easier with time, you start to get the feeling that if someone is not willing to put in the effort to work on things it becomes a waste of our short lives.
I hope all is well with you,
Thinkin
It was an eventful evening Thinkin: This is a follow up to my wife wanting me to move back to the house so she can move out. That way I could take care of the dog but her parents own the house. So it leaves the door open to feel she can come and go as she pleases, least that’s how I see it.
It was an eventful evening; I saw my wife cause she kept asking to talk. She asked me about if I thought about moving in while she moves out. I told her I couldn't do that, and I pretty much told her I didn't see us being able to be friends. I asked her what she thought about it but she just said I don't know. That's seems to be her answer to everything these days. She looked down so I explained I wasn't doing it to be a d!ck but I wouldn't see that as healthy. I told her I care about her and love her still but I just can't move on and be in the house. So I feel good about it, I don't think I said anything I didn't want to, and I felt the need for it to be said to move on. But I feel good about it so I guess it all gets better with time, I would have found it hard to say I didn’t want to be with her or even be friends but it came out so damn easy this time. So here I sit, thinkin.
Re: It was an eventful evening riversandlakes:
You thought it out right there, Thinkin. Her parents house, so logically and behaviourally (such a word?), she can come and go whenever she wants. she gets to remind you of her existence constantly and Plan B is always in effect.
They don't know about many things, until they make a move. But one thing they do know is to blow things up sky-high and don't know to all the rest.
My ex knew she wanted "space and time" to checkout the OM (subconsciously, i think), but she doesn't know anything else. How about us and betrayal and my feelings? Yet friendship was still begged for. I am still very much disgusted.
Anything that makes you feel good at this juncture, buddy. For she is doing what makes her feel good.
Re: It was an eventful evening Thinkin: Thanks for the reply Rivers, even today I still feel good about what I chose to do.
