THANK YOU OJARIANS!!! gypsy: As I sit here waiting for the movers to come and take my life's possessions away, I have some time to ponder and think about these last few months. I remember sometime ago thinking how badly I needed a support group to help me get through the horrible emotional ride I was on...I remember thinking that I needed to surround myself with people who had or were going through the same thing I was - because I did not know ANYONE who was/is divorced and was having a hard time finding people who could relate, not to mention the fact that I was sick of worrying my friends and family, and I am sure they were feeling really helpless as well. So I did a search on yahoo! - probably something like "divorce support group" and after skipping past all the religious sites, came upon ojar...I am sure many of you came upon ojar in the same way. I was a lurker for some time and then I decided to tell my story. The support I received was and remains to be incredibly surprising...I really felt like I was among friends and people who I could relate to. Over the past few months, I have been back and forth on this site...sometimes I post a lot, sometimes I reply and sometimes I don't have the energy to read everything that is going on...but it is like going to a bar where everybody knows your name...I leave for a while but I am always welcomed back.
So, I just wanted to take a moment to tell you all how much you mean to me and how important this site is to me...even if it's stopping by for a beer at the b&b lounge :) Thank you for your support, the laughs and all the wonderful kindness that is shown on these boards day in and day out.
I will be on the road for the next week and a half, so I will not be logging on here...when I come back I will have started a brand new life in a new state and I still can't believe that the time is finally here, now. I have waited for this moment for a long time - and finally, here it is!
So once again, thank you all for the love and kindness, you don't know how much you have changed my life and how much you have all helped me through what I feel has been the toughest time in my life...I hope to be there for you as well.
Keep smiling...we only live once so make the most of it. Every day, every hour.
And now the cable man is here to disconnect my service.
Luck to you all. Peace and love...I'll be back soon!
Gypsy
Re: THANK YOU OJARIANS!!! amola: gypsy...
i am so happy for you! i wish you the best of luck in your new life, and hope that everything goes smoothly with the move and all the "joys" that go with moving halfway across the country! lol
take care, good luck, and let us know when you get there!!!!
{{{HUGS}}}
:)
amola