What should I do? judy: My husband and I have been married 12 years. I found out that he has been doing the online dating sites for over a year. He finally met a person half his age online and started seeing her a month ago. He tells me that he does not want to get a divorce, but he can not give up his girlfirend either. For the last month it has been nothing but a devastating pain for me. My councelor, family and friends tell me to get out of the marriage. That if he does not want to give up his girlfriend, than he doesn't want our life. I confronted him again last weekend and he told me that he wanted to go to a councelor and see if he can work it out for himself. I gave him this week to make an appointment. As of Wednesday night he had not made the phone call yet. If he doesn't by Friday, I will go and file for divorce on Monday --- this pain is so overwhelming that I can hardly function. My doctor has given me happy pills and sleeping pills, but I'm still so sad and tired. Am I doing the right thing by filing next week?
Judy
Re: How do you start to heal cdoulatiff: Oh judy, I am so so sorry. I don't know what the "right" thing is to do. I do know that here you will have friends and people who truly care. Even though we don't know each other face to face we know what the pain that the others are going through. I will say a prayer for you. Take care and Pm anytime. Just know that you can say anything here you want. No matter what it is, wheter it is yelling, crying, screaming, cussing. take care of yourself.
((((Big big hugs)))
Tiffany
Re: How do you start to heal judy: Thank you -- its really hard when you head and gut tell you one thing but your heart has been ripped out.
Re: What should I do? falling: So sorry to hear what you're going through. This is a great site for support, to vent, or just be around people of like situations. I wish none of us had to be here, but ...
by the way, your husbands a jerk, sorry.
