Re: Panic Attack Ellena: He told me last night that he just wants to be friends. It isn't even the long-distance thing, its that he doesn't feel like that for me. Talk about a blow to a girl's ego. This sucks.
Re: Panic Attack Ilosther: Sorry to laugh, but the becoming a lesbian thing is just too funny. I have said after my wife leaves me that I will become a lesbian-so I'll still like women ;D
Re: Panic Attack whatnext: How did your date react to your switch?
Re: Panic Attack Ellena: Go ahead and laugh. Sometimes the only thing to do is chuckle, otherwise I will just give into the tears. And who the heck knows when those will end.
Panic Attack Ellena: Today is just totally crappy. I am divorcing my best friend, who is the person I want to talk to about all this junk. And I can't, so I turn to you guys. Here is what happened: Been dating this guy. It's a casuel thing because he lives four hours away, basically just daily or every other day phone calls and some weekend visits. The other day he surprises the hell of me by saying he doesn't know if wants to date long distance. What the hell? This is nothing serious, so what's the problem? He wanted a few days to think about it, but now I am just thinking of calling him and telling him not to worry about it, we will just be friends. I mean, I don't really want a guy that has to think hard about scrapping together enough emotion to casually date me.
But then my stupid heart gets in the way, and I know I still want him to say we are dating. Should I just get out now? Should I wait for him to call or just give in and call him. Should I try just being friends, it couldn't be that big a change, I'll just ignore the physical attraction. Or should I give up on men and become a lesbian?
