Re: help justmenow: Qualt, I know what you are feeling. I went through the depression you described. I was cheated on too. Let me tell you this - do NOT hurt yourself because it isn't going to accomplish anything. I know the reason you want to die is to get the pain to stop because I wanted to die too. I almost tried it too, but by the grace of God I am still alive and instead drove straight to the doctor's office. He prescribed Paxil and I took it for two months during my divorce. Meds, counseling, exercise, friends, family, my church, all of those got me through and I'm glad I didn't listen to the depression and kill myself. It isn't worth it. The pain DOES stop eventually and you'll find that you have so much to live for. You are still young and there is a whole lifetime of happiness ahead of you. Take the meds, at least for now until you can cope. Find a counselor and go through the grieving process, but do it alive, okay? What you are going through is not abnormal and it IS survivable. You are not alone. Please make it through this, okay? I will pray for you.
Re: help Samarra: Hey qualt,
Please try to calm down...you're posting with us and that's a great start...you're not alone...there's people here who can relate to your feelings...believe me...it seems like the end of the world right now...I've been there hon....keep talking to us.
Re: help timetobefree: PS--Anyone out there who can help more than I can? Please?????
Amy
Re: help qualt: I cant kill myself i know that but i wish someone else would i feel like someone is constantly punching me in the chest and i live on the coast and have tried going to the beach but it doesnt help. I have blue eyes and she used to tell me they remind her of the ocean THANX ALOT B@#! NOW I CANT EVER GO TO THE BEACH AGAIN. Its suppose to get beteer but i dont want to get over her i dont want to fall in love again i dont want to look for someone else i want HER just her. and if i cant have her back then i dont want to continue to live. i know its selfish and i wont kill myself at least i dont htink i will but this pain has only gotten worse over the past 2 weeks not better WORSE IT FUC*%$# HURTS DAMMIT
Re: help timetobefree: qualt,
I'll be honest with you. I feel like I am in way over my head giving you advice, because I was never as depressed as you were over my divorce. It sucked and it took my breath away for months, but I never lost the will to live. I don't know what to say to help you. I wish I had the words to take away some of the pain, but I don't. Just know that I am thinking of you and hoping you will take this one piece of advice from me:
I really think you should call a suicide hotline.
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
Take care, please,
Amy
