The Meddling X!!!!!! toughgirl1029: Why can't there be a legal way to remove a problem EX???!?!?!
My BF's X has got to get a life!!! Their son got into some serious trouble with the law and as a result he has to go to a Youth Development Center for about 6 months. OK, fine. We accept this. The problem is the mother....she has told any law enforcement official that it my BF's fault this has happened...Now the son "N" is going to be 17 in Sept. Old enough to know right from wrong. N was living here...BF has had custody of him since he was a toddler. N decided he wanted to live with mom. OK, fine. My BF told her she needed to keep very tight reins on him, do not let him run free or you'll regret it! Well...mommy dearest let him run, be free.....things started out small...skipping a class, skipping 2 classes, skipping school, then the trouble with the police, smoking on school property-which he received a fine--the info was forwarded to the mother-she didn't pay it, hence a warrant for N's arrest!! Who's fault was this?? Yup, my BF!!
The other night the mother "B" just had to 2-way my BF and talk about stupid stuff...I'm not a jealous person and I know they need to keep their relationship friendly for N's sake...but that night a comment was made that she needs a new car so she's going to go to Domestics (She has another child) My BF, the smarta$$ told her he'd quit his job and work at the local Uni-Mart (ours is scary!!) she laughed and said how he'd be there with all the 500 lb women and loving it. "After all, you like your women big"! OMG---I am not what I'd consider BIG....I'm tall and have maybe an extra 20 lbs...if that! Just because all she does is drink her freakin' beer and is anorexic looking doesn't make everyone else big!! I was so pissed.
Yesterday in the middle of N being taken away...she proceeds to tell BF that she feels sorry for my son (he's 17)..yeah ok...he asked her why...Because I've been with 7 different men since the kids dad left (he left in 96) and they last an average of 2 years. Just as my son gets attached to them, I throw them out. AND...the best part...while I was married to my 2nd husband (who was in Iraq all of last year) I had SEVERAL men. OMG!!! I spent last year raising 5 kids (2 were his) and running a house, still fighting for custody of his kids, fighting the meddling mother-in-law and trying to get all 5 kids who were involved in year long activities at the same time to where they needed to be. I flipped out!!!
This woman (ok...she was an Egg Incubator) has the gonads to say this?? This person SLEPT with her son's parole officer to get him out of some of the trouble he was in!!! The PO is married!! She also has been with 2 other guys since February AND her uncle...thats right her uncle (by marriage) is now pursuing her!!!!!
Oh, did I mention that she allows "N" to drink??? And buys him cigarettes...and the best part...she woke up one morning, checked on him and found some girl in his bed...She just went back to bed...didn't see a problem with it!
Since I don't want to end up being locked up the rest of my life...I've resorted to trying to figure out a way to remove the Meddling Ex once and for all....there's got to be a way.........I'll find it!
