doubts on wedding day? freovir: The living together thread got me thinking. How many of you thought, "What the fuck am i doing?" when you were standing at the alter? I know I did, but i was only 20 years old and had a grand total of $1.54 in my pocket. Plus I think I was still high from the night before.
--freovir
Re: doubts on wedding day? in_search_of: I think that biggest thing is that I felt very little that day, not thrilled shitless, not excited that this was the person that I would spend the rest of my life with, just that this was what we were supposed to be doing, because we had dated xx years, graduated college blah blibity blah blah blah
Re: doubts on wedding day? amola: yeah, i kinda' went through the motions. but then again, we all were on that day because my ex's mom had passed away 5 days before and we had her funeral 2 days before. we were all pretty numb.
but still, even putting that aside, i wasn't thrilled......i was having second thoughts, even if i didn't voice them or admit to them at the time. i knew deep down that i was doing the wrong thing.
if (and that's a very huge if) i ever do it again, you better believe that i will be analyzing every thought that enters my head, even if it's only for a nanosecond............
Re: doubts on wedding day? AmyMarie1972: I didn't have second thoughts because me and the ex had been together for 9 years before we got married, I think we only got married because it was expected of us. I did get a bit drunk on my wedding day which probably helped ;D
Amy
Re: doubts on wedding day? scraft: The day my exh and I got married I was fine, and thought nothing in the world could ruin my day. It was just perfect in every sense the the word. I was literally floating. When I arrived at the hairdressers to get my hair done. The woman was about to strangle me because I was so calm. Apparently she had seen some messed up brides. She kept asking me why I wasn't nervous. I replied saying that we had been together for 4 years what was there to be nervous about? Then it happened..I was at the church, and the music began I'm walking down the aisle thinking I can't do this I'm only 19. What am I doing? I looked at my mother and said I can't. I'm not sure if I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Her reply was you said yes. Not much help now that I look back..
