Re: What Men Want .... 1-4 bjs2005: 8. Men want loyalty, honesty and devotion.
I'd like a woman who is devoted to her husband emotionally, physically and romantically. I realize there are other men out there that might turn her on, but she would need to be strong enough to recognize the differences between urges and actions. I would like a woman to stand up for me no matter what the issue, and would expect me to do the same. I'd like a woman who realizes that we are a team, one unit, againsts the world, together. Home team.
What Men Want .... 1-4 Cowboy12: sorry Charmed I thought this too long to Hyjack your thread.
1. Men want a fun and exciting (female) companion.
2. Men want great sex (consistent, frequent, and passionate lovemaking score high with men).
3. Men want to share meals with their woman companion (especially when she cooks for him).
4. Men want you to support them in their work and boost their confidence.
5. Men want you to look great, keep in shape, and express confidence about your body.
6. Men want you to listen to them and treat them with respect.
7. Men need private time, to unwind, to engage in sports and hobbies, and to spend time with other men.
1. Men want a fun and exciting companion. There are things that a man will discuss with a woman if the level of communication and trust has been established. Sharing activities can also be a healthy way to build relationships. If women spend more time with men sharing some activities each week they are likely to get along better with the men in their lives.
2. Men want consistent, frequent, passionate sex. Men get turned on by different things that a woman does. A woman wants to know she's "the only one he loves" and that he digs her. A man wants his partner to be a bit of a lusty animal in bed - thus the high subscription rate among men to Playboy and Penthouse. (Note: the top 2 subscriptions among men are Playboy and Penthouse, the top for women is Ladies Home Journal and Better Homes & Garden). A woman that delivers in the bedroom will, more often than not, get what she wants from her man - a dedicated lover. A woman who is more vocal in bed, and carries the attitude that goes with it, is likely to get a lot back from her man, as well. On the other hand, a woman who is frigid and uses sex as a manipulation tool is likely to receive games right back. The main thing isn't so much experimentation though - please don't take this the wrong way. It is about creativity, bonding, and emotional intimacy. Men bond through being physically connected. The act of making love is how a man feels that you love him. Withhold this, and you are withholding your love, to a man. Men want to connect with the physical act, because the act of release during sex is how a man most feels connected to you. It is the "feeling of being connected" he most seeks.
By the way, some men living by their animal instinct or Ego's rules enjoy the conquest. We can help curb this tendency by being aware and learning as much as possible about each other prior to becoming physical. Women can help improve their sexual relationships by offering some spice and also helping men understand the importance of romance, ambience, and setting a good mood (thus helping her meet her own need to "heat-up" first).
3. Men want to share meals with you, especially when you prepare the meal. I personally enjoy cooking a meal together and going out and enjoying a nice meal together. Just as much as I do not expect a woman to cook every meal for us, I also appreciate it when she does. It is also nice when a woman appreciates when her man cooks for her. Women who share their meals with their partner are improving the quality time they spend together and building a better bond. A man who expects his woman to cook every meal might improve his relationship by offering to clean-up dishes or surprising his woman with a home-cooked meal of his own. Many men just take their women out to dinner to show their appreciation (thus, the reason Mother's Day brunches are so expensive!). Communication about the importance of cooperation and sharing of all aspects of the meal can help improve problems in this area.
4. Men want you to support them in their work and help boost their confidence. Note: Women who understand men do not put them down. Women who understand this ask men questions about their career and let them know "you can do it, baby!" In return, women will find their man equally supportive because she understands him and does things to let him know she's a believer. Call it a case of mutual admiration.
Re: What Men Want .... 1-4 charmed: I'm enjoying the lessons ;D
thank you-
`charmed
Re: What Men Want .... 1-4 ti-poux: Cowboy...
Thanks for the crash course ;D ;D ;D
let me know when you have another one
Thanks
Chantal ;)
Re: What Men Want .... 1-4 charmed: An almost perfect description of the kind of man/relationship I desire, bjs.
For me, temptation, much less "acting", isn't an issue. When I'm commited to and love someone, my mindset and heart are firmly planted. It isn't that I'm blind LOL, but seeing an attractive man is no big deal. He's just a man in a pretty package, but not the man I love, therefore I don't have urges or allow my thoughts to roam.
Maybe I'm just weird LOL
Anyway, I like what you said ;D
`charmed
