Found out he DID sleep with her!!! ColoHill: [color=red"> I am seeing red today. >:( I can't enter a lot on here because, well the information is all still processing in my head. I learned so much yesterday. :'( We accomplished more in the way of talking yesterday than we had the last year I guess. So I found out he slept with her and that he is still seeing her!!! He wants me to accept that and let him decide when it isn't working for himself and let him end it. He asked me not to call her so that she couldn't decide there was too much drama. That way, he wouldn't resent me for wondering later, "What if..." [glow=red,2,300"> Freaking MFing Stupid B@st@rd! [/glow"> OMG! I don't even know how to process this all right now...[/color"> >:(
Re: Found out he DID sleep with her!!! ColoHill: [color=red"> BTW...On top of this all and finding this all out yesterday morning, he wanted me to have sex with him yesterday afternoon!!! >:([/color">
Re: Found out he DID sleep with her!!! barelybreathing: Cut him off. Eliminate his options. Draw a "clear" line in the sand.
This is for your benefit!
Otherwise, after time you began to think you are crazy just like him. Plus, you then move from the victim stage to a willing participant stage.
He does not deserve options. He does not get to sit on the fencepost. Yank the rug right out from underneath him.
BB
Re: Found out he DID sleep with her!!! jillieb44: Game over.
He's choosing her, obviously, and wants your okay. No way.
I agree, draw the line in the sand. If it were me I'd be so outta there (or kick his arse to the curb).
Jillie
Re: Found out he DID sleep with her!!! ColoHill: Thank you all for your support. I think the Metalica, Slipknot, System of a Down, and such is helping. I managed to talk to him this morning when he called me @ work without chewing his a$$ out again. I feel all this anger boiling up and I just want to scream at him and ask, "Are you just stupid? What the truck is your problem? If it's not about me can you at least think of our children?" The time will come for that comment. But, I don't think when I want to pick up my heaviest lead vase and chuck it at his head is a good time. I am so not a violent person. Believe me. So the fact that he has me this upset is such a shock. Maybe I will have to listen to something a little more calm before I head home...Enya or something. ;) Find my zen. Get some balance to these emotions I am feeling.
