congratulations?! sparks: My divorce will be final at the end of this month. I told a couple of friends and they said congradulations. Congratulations for what? My marriage is over. I lost my best friend, my lover, my life companion. My heart is broken. Shouldnt this be a bad thing?
Re: congratulations?! jadedangel: [color=navy"> I don't think people get it ... if they haven't been through it. No, I cannot acclaim to know what it is like to go through a divorce ... however ... I have absolutely lost my best friend ... I absolutely lost so many dreams .... my heart absolutely shattered....
Yes it is a sad thing ... I am sorry... and I think you will find many here who will feel for you.... [/color">
Re: congratulations?! tyrogers: If they are your friends, wouldn't they know whether or not this was a good or bad thing for you? Wouldn't they know whether or not you are happy or sad about it?
From what I understand, you are sad about it. I am so sorry sparks. Chin up! It will get better. That's a promise that almost all of us can make to you. It WILL get better.
BBH
Re: congratulations?! dgiirl: Maybe they never liked your ex... or they're divorced and are cynical about it.
I wouldnt take it personally, but I would tell them that you dont appreciate comments like that.
