Re: Wow! fiona: I understand where you're coming from (many people here do); I stayed in "limbo-land" until I just couldn't take it anymore. And honestly, it's pure self-inflicted torture and if you honestly want any chance of a reconciliation (or positive mental health) he needs to miss you. I think it'll just hit you one day. For me, it was last month, I was listening to Mariah Carey's "shake it off" song on repeat while driving and I somehow ended up at the house and decided to go through with ending it. Then I went and got a massage. Now I don't feel as bad.
Re: Wow! Mart: We ned to find the answer, write a book and make millions! :)
Re: Wow! Erin: I don't know if you ever can truely know....
I thought I did, and I'm right here with you...
Re: Wow! Older Guy: Mart - if we realy knew the answer to that question......there's a lot of people on here that could move forward from their faded hope of getting back together with their partner and leave the state of confusion that they are in.
I know when someone is in love with me when we are together, but i havn't yet figured out how to tell if someone is still in love with me when we are separated. Hope that makes sense.
Bob
Re: Wow! Mart: Thank you CH. The problem is that I do not trust my instinct at all. Its my instinct that got me to fall in love and agree to marry my ex, just to be dumped a week before the wedding date. My instincts are none existent.
You know when you fall in love, but how do you know when the other is really in love with you???? ???
Mart
