thank you exhaulted: I just wanted you to know something.
I am moving on without you.
There is no doubt in my mind that our relationship is over and that there is no sense in me trying to make this work.
You have annihilated every part of our marriage, friendship, and trust completely.
I asked you Tuesday to come meet with me this upcoming week and try to figure out if this divorce is justified.
I was willing to give it a chance, especially after this weekend when you called and shared so much deeply. I really had hope and it made me feel good.
However, in the last few days, I can see that you have no intentions in working things out. Sadly, you simply do not know better.
The same day I offered to see you and work on solutions, you set up a myspace profile promoting that you're single and looking to date.
Also, you never returned my call Wed. fully knowing I was going through a very hard time with my aunt's death. The day of the funeral, you didn’t even bother to call me and give support.
How much lower can you sink to hurt me and even more so, wreck your life.
Did you ever think that the more you do to compensate for your low self esteem, the more you hurt your loved ones and the very people
who do care about you? Probably not. One day you will.
It has become abundantly clear to me that you have become someone I cannot trust and are only out for yourself. You have lied to me
and have not once thought about the consequences of your actions. You do not care for my feelings nor do you love me.
I thank you for showing me your true colors. I also want to thank you for not being there for me. You have made my decision to divorce you so much clearer now. Your heart is not true and even more so, I really do deserve better than all this.
I can look back at this and know i tried...that makes me feel complete. Can you?
Enjoy your new life, you deserve it.
Goodbye.
Re: thank you freovir: at least the state of limbo has ended and you can move on. THAT is a truly wonderful thing in a truly unwonderful situation. Stay strong, and good luck.
--fre
