Re: Sweet Strawbeey Christ Older Guy: [quote author=Toxic link=topic=17526.msg151954#msg151954 date=1124619362">
Believe it or not, you're probably still reeling from your divorce and have some unresolved things leftover from that.[/quote">
I agree with Toxic on this one.
Rejection is a hard thing to deal with and we sometimes mistake what we are feeling for something else.
I'm sorry but i do have throw this in....you shouldn't have been with this girl when she is in a relationship with someone else and she shouldn't not have been involved with you either. Doesn't say much for her integrity and would you want to have to worry about her doing that to you some day too.
Good luck with it.
Bob
Re: Sweet Strawberry Christ Schadenfreude: Even if you are not hungry, eat something that tastes good... ice cream, whatever. Your trials require energy. We will survive... the sun will rise. Even if we feel as though it will not.
Re: Sweet Strawberry Christ Schadenfreude: Good god i hope so.
And i hope you make it through as well...
Re: Sweet Strawberry Christ Schadenfreude: You and me both, sister. I thought i was strong. Hell ihave to KILL people from time to time, but i can't shake off a little girl 8 years younger then me who has NO life experience, and ain't even that bright. Beautiful, but that's about it. Am i truly that shallow that i get upset over the loss of a pretty face?
I feel as though there is no one out there to equal her. That is utter nonsense, but that is the way i feel. I just want it to be 6 months from now whe this is a ll said and done.
Re: Sweet Strawberry Christ justmenow: What you are feeling has nothing to do with this woman, but has everything to do with the rejection and pain of your pending divorce. The woman herself is just a stand-in for every sort of pain you haven't dealt with yet. The counseling will help you find out stuff that you may not have even realized.
