Realizing that I can do this gypsynikki: For the past 3 weeks I've written him every night. Sometimes 4 or 5 pages long. Then today, I'm starting to fill LIBERATED from the chains of holding on. He doesn't love me...fine! I'm just an associate...even better! He can't pick up the phone and call to see how I'm doing...A ok buddy.
I can get on with my life. I'm glad I didn't invest years with his @ss settling for mediocrity. I'm so happy tonight! I am a FREE woman..YEEHAW. I can do anything.
Just feeling really good and wanted to share ;) thx for listening
Re: Realizing that I can do this Suddenly Single: Hey! Good for you! Good attitude and you are right - you didn't settle and that is going to be the most important thing in the long run! You will be happier because you didn't settle!
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Re: Realizing that I can do this LostTeacher: ohhhh do i relate.
did the same thing. every time he talked to me, it was short and sweet....while i would send page long letters, hour long phone calls...to go absolutely nowhere.
so now, it's about me. i can be happy with my friends and family, and i have survived anything that could be considered important without him. b-days, holidays, important events. i don't need him anymore to be happy.
and even though i go through bouts of missing him (like i did yesterday), i can move on.
way to go for seeing the light....even if it's fleeting or lasts forever. it means that it CAN happen!
LT
