She says "reconciliation is on the table" harmonix321: And she agreed to see a marriage counselor. Granted, of course it was me who asked if she would and laid a little pressure on, but does the fact that she agreed and she said "reconciliation is not out of the realm of possibilities" offer me some hope? What should I do now? Try and find the best damn counselor in the area immediately and go 100% for it? I feel like I've been offered a real opportunity here, because this is the first time she's verbalized anything like reconciliation.
Re: She says "reconciliation is on the table" jadedangel: [color=navy"> Well you can always go 100% .. knowing that if it didn't work--- you tried everything you could. You gave it your all and you won't have the wonderment to follow you.
What is the worst thing that could happen? --- I won't answer that .... but I think you know what I mean.[/color">
Re: She says "reconciliation is on the table" ajw: Thats defintely a good start,i hope it works out for you,its important now that you are both honest when with the counsellor.You said you knew she had plans to meet a guy,well if she brings that up then you know she's probably serious about wanting to make it work,if she does'nt then she's probably doing it just to placate you.
Andy
Re: She says "reconciliation is on the table" insomnia: there is no other way to go into counseling if you want it to work- both parties should go into it 100%- not just you. take it as a positive sign because if you take it any other way, it wont work. take a chance... you have nothing else to lose in my opinion, if it doesnt work out, you lose her, if you dont go, you lose her, if it works, you gain your relationship back... the possibility of regaining your relationship far outweighs everything else...
just my opinion
