Re: Bittersweet moments with the ex... down2basics: That's my girl! ;)
Way to go Goddess - you are the original and in my heart the only true Goddess of Light! [IMG"> http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a176/Hasatude5150/swoon.gif">
Re: Bittersweet moments with the ex... flyaway: Thank you PG. :)
Re: Bittersweet moments with the ex... PickingUpThePieces: Great post....Havehope put it so eloquently, sometimes the love just takes a different form. Right now I am hurt and angry at my stbx, but I hope one day we can be at a point that you and your ex are. It gives me some hope. I'm glad you have been able to move on and have a new life and have been able to move past the hurt/anger/hatred and forgive. That says a lot about you as a person. :)
Re: Bittersweet moments with the ex... Ilosther: So proud of you PG. And proud of him. It seems that life does move on after a marriage ends. I've always stated my love for my wife will not end when she divorces me. She didnt do anything as a person to make me want to not love her. It's just the whole insitution of marriage that is ending and that has problems, but our friendship is still there. Course, we still need to finalize it, but I can only do my best to move forward. And it seems like you and your ex are doing just that.
A paper cannot end love. You can only end love if you want it to end. Sometimes that love just has to take a new form. Your story is just so warming to me and I can only hope life moves on as well as yours did, and your ex's.
Re: Bittersweet moments with the ex... lostboy: Well Pices,
you given me hope that I might be able to have some semblance of a friendship with my ex at some point. Right now there is still a lot of pain and animosity but I'm hoping that will pass with time.
You'v also given me hope that the third times a charm, This is my second divorce. God it pains me to see that. but it's true. The first was quite devistating but I think this could be far more amicable.
I'm glad you found new love, happiness and forgiveness.
I have hope that I will be in your same place someday. But for now I take each day as it comes.
Lostboy
