ex has moved on... but won't leave me alone

ex has moved on... but won't leave me alone Candygirl: So, it's been about 3 months since me and my bf have broken up.  He started seeing other girls right after we broke up and I haven't dated yet because it just felt too soon and I didn't want to rebound.

I feel like I'm over the relationship now, and he has a new girl he's seeing.  But what confuses me is he keeps messaging me almost everyday and sometimes he's really flirty or talks about times we've had sex or special things we did.  I find this very wierd, i don't want to talk to him about those things anymore because i don't feel 'in love' with him anymore.

I feel like he's trying to rub it in that he's got another gf.  Like just today he emailed me his profile on east photos website, where he posted pics of himself and his new gf. ick!!  Why does he think I want to know about her, he's moved on and I want him to leave me alone and stop being flirty and trying to be my best friend.

Why won't he leave me alone... someone please tell my why he's doing this!!  ???
Re: ex has moved on... but won't leave me alone Failedjedi: UMMM because he is a selfsih insensitive JERK !!!!

No really be honest with him  tell him it upsets you. Tell him to stop and if he wont tell him to P up a rope.

What would his current girlfriend think if she knew ?
  What would you feel like if you were his current GF ?
Sounds like a you cant and shouldnt trust him.
  There are players and players with honor.
Players with honor are upfront.

Anyhoo hopes this helps
 Re: ex has moved on... but won't leave me alone Candygirl: [quote author=Failedjedi link=topic=18648.msg166704#msg166704 date=1126631184">
What would his current girlfriend think if she knew ?
   What would you feel like if you were his current GF ?
Sounds like a you cant and shouldnt trust him.
  There are players and players with honor.
Players with honor are upfront.
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Wow I totally didn't think of it that way... if i was his gf i would be pretty pee'd off if I found out he was still talking to his ex and flirting with her.


 Re: ex has moved on... but won't leave me alone Failedjedi: umm ya think LOL

anyhoo ya know what to do :D
 Re: ex has moved on... but won't leave me alone husky: hi. my ex has been calling and messaging me too, although he is seeing someone else now. he usually does that in the middle of the night. i ignored his calls and message him back a few times to stop contacting me because i cannot be friends with him. he said he still miss me and all that crap.

told him how can he do this to me when he is seeing someone else. he said why not. and said he told his new gf everything anyway. i can't believe the girl is ok with what he is doing.