Re: Got the Divorce papers through today summerparis: I think it's natural to feel sad. You wouldn't be the sweet, caring woman we've all gotten to know and love if you didn't have a moment to reflect on the past.
xox Songbird
Re: Got the Divorce papers through today AmyMarie1972: You know I can always count on you guys here to cheer me up. Thank you so much for your words. I think that you are all fantastic.
In the end decided to stay in and continue with packing but got the kids involved and we had fun but only got two boxes done still.
Papers have not yet been signed have just left them sitting on the ledge but definately posting them off tomorrow. No point in waiting it is part of moving on.
Luv ya all and thank you
Hugs back
Amy
Got the Divorce papers through today AmyMarie1972: Well I got my divorce papers through today. I have been waiting and waiting for them to get here eager to sign them and get everything finalised but now that they are here I cant help but feel a little sad. I have read through them and everything seems fine so just have to sign them and get them sent back and then it is all sorted.
Maybe I am not as far along in the recovery process as I thought, I dont know. I was doing fine until they got here this morning. There has been no tears or anything just a feeling of sadness as well as a few moments of reflection on the past and what was.
Am signing them and posting them back today anyway, then I am going out this evening to cheer myself up.
Amy
Re: Got the Divorce papers through today HeartbrokenDingo: I'm sorry Amy. :'(
I guess the only way to describe it is as "Bittersweet". :(
I don't really have any words of wisdom to offer you right now except to say that I"m guessing that what you're feeling is normal and a natural part of the recovery process. It's ok to feel sadness because he was such a huge part of your life and it's ok to mourn that loss and the finality of it. Just don't get mired down in it and realize that this is just a temporary valley and very soon you will be on the top of the mountain overlooking your beautiful life with all of its' blessings.
You are in my thoughts dear.
{{{{{Hugs}}}}}
Dingo
:)
Re: Got the Divorce papers through today ChiefWiggum: That's too bad. I didn't think I would be sad. I guess if you got sad, then I'm going to be sad too.
Hope you have fun tonight.
