If a man wants you
doesn't
>> want you, nothing can make him stay.
>>
>> o Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
>>
>> o Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
>> heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship
>> that's not meant to be.
>>
>> o Slower is better.
>>
>> o Never live your life for a man before you find what
>> makes
>> you truly happy.
>>
>> o If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating
>> you
>> as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend
>> wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
>>
>> o If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
>> probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
>> You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things
are
>> not better.
>>
>> o The only person you can control in a relationship is
>> you.
>>
>> o Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of
>> different women. He didn't marry them when he got them
>> pregnant, Why
>> would he treat you any differently?
>>
>> o Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
>>
>> o Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
>> something
>> bothers you, speak up.
>>
>> o Never let a man know everything. He will use it
against
>> you
>> later.
>>
>> o You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from
>> within.
>>
>> o Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
>> are
>> ... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not
>> make him
>> into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
>>
>> o Never let a man define who you are.
>>
>> o Never borrow someone else's man.
>>
>> o If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
>>
>> o A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat
>> you.
>>
>> o All men are NOT dogs. (After all the others, this one
is
>> the most important one of all.)
>>
>> o You should not be the one doing all the
>> bending...compromise is a two way street. [Definitely">
>>
>> o You need time to heal between relationships...there is
>> nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before
>> pursuing a
>> new relationship.
>>
>> o You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
>> relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for
someone
>> complimentary...not supplementary.
>>
>> o Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.
>> Right.
>>
>> o Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know
>> where
>> you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes
>> it for
>> granted.
>>
>> o Never move into his mother's house.
>>
>> o Never co-sign for a man.
>>
>> o Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
>> everything
>> that you need.
>>
>> o Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
>>
>> Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
>> RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
>>
>> They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
>> appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget
>> them.
>>
>> Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men.
>>
>> BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT...........
Re: If a man wants you whatnext: [quote author=sparks link=topic=19048.msg171659#msg171659 date=1127311317">
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
[/quote">
Except a restraining order.
Re: If a man wants you tyrogers: Nope. Restraining orders don't work either. ;) Trust me.
Re: If a man wants you dgiirl: [quote">
o You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
>> relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for
someone
>> complimentary...not supplementary.
[/quote">
OMG I need to send this to my ex!!!! lol The last heart to heart we had he said he's looking for someone to complEment not compliment him. I knew it wasnt right when he said it, but I always second guess myself around him because he's arrogant. He thinks he knows everything.
Re: If a man wants you whatnext: Songbird,
I had an invention once...
It's a
"Jump to conclusions" mat...
