Re: Moving out moving on Dire Wolf: Good for you brother. A fresh now start without having anything to remind you of the pain she has so maliciously inflicted on you without reguard for your feelings will do wonders for your resolve and strengh. I'm sorry about your dog though, that companionship could really help right now. But at least you didn't have to get rid of her entirly and will still be able to see her at your parents house.
She has got to stop contacting you and pushing herself in your face. How can she not understand how hard this is on you. That is so selfish. Good luck and best wishes in your new life.
DW
Re: Moving out moving on lostboy: Thanks Miss Moon,
I know I will be better off in the end.. everything happens for a reason.. or so I keep telling my self..(hugs) to you.. ;)
Lostboy
Re: Moving out moving on PickingUpThePieces: I'm sure it will feel good to have your own place and own space to recover and move on. I am looking forward to that also. I, too, am leaving a dog behind...my husband has remained in the home and the dog was his when he came to the relationship. Go to your parent's house and visit your dog as often as you can, it will make you feel better! I wish you lots of luck with your new place!
Re: Moving out moving on unhappy: I think for a lot of people to understand this they have to have experienced true hardship on their own..she never has.
I think because she has this other person in her life she is not having to deal with all the emotions that come along with a break up.
As far as her stuff--if you really do not want to talk to her or see her go ahead box up her sh** and email her that you want it outby a certain day and time. I know that sounds mean but she leave no choice--it is a little childess that the other person is always in the back ground. Very disrespectful.
She can't help how she feels and it truely won't be right for her to stay with you if she doesn't love you and in time you will heal and move on...I pray you find peace and find a love you never knew you could have........
Moving out moving on lostboy: My ex called last night wanting to pick up the rest of her things including a dresser we had both purchased together a year ago. I made sure I wasn't around when she showed up. I felt stupid not being able to enter my my own home but I simply could not deal with watching her and her "girl friend" rifle through whats left of our stuff. When she left she actually called and left a message on my cell to let me know she had gone in case that was the reason I wasn't there..OF COURSE that was the reason I wasn't there.
She doesn't seem to get the concept that I'm trying NOT to have any contact with her. Ughh and everytime she calls she sounds pre-ocupied with her "friend" gigling in the back ground. It makes me sick to my stomach. she still hasn't picked up eveything. I wan't to box it up but why should I it's not my crap it's not my responsibility.. I'v paid the lease through to November and I'm moving out into my own place this Friday. I can not wait to leave that apartment..Maybe I will box her stuff up and just leave it in a corner of the apartment. Thank fully I have some very dear friends who are going to help me move and then we are all going to celebrate that evening by getting piss drunk..
It will be nice to be on my own with my own things and my own thoughts again. I just need my own space to recoup and re-generate. I'm going to miss my dog though, The apartment I'm moving to is simply too small for her so she's going to have to stay at my parents house for a while.
God I'm so ready to just be through with this. with her..and all of the drama and just move on..I wish she'd stop trying to be friends with me for a while.. stop acting like it's no big deal that she's torn our marraige apart. But I'm getting the point I don't really care. I just want my own space again...that's all I care about right now...a place to heal and find some solace.
Lostboy
