I miss her avoj: I miss her
I miss my ex. It's been over 2 months. She hasn't tryed to contact me or anything. I don't know where she lives, her phone number, nothing. 7-years together and she shut me out like this. I hurt. I hate this. I miss her like crazy.
Does anyone know why people do this? I mean how can you just walk away like that and be so mean and nasty to someone?
Will she ever apologize for her behavior? How can you just stop loving someone and move on so quickly? I know this may sound weird, but we had 5 cats that we raised for 7-years together. She loved them like crazy. She walked away from them to. I just don't get it.
I feel like I will be alone for the rest of my life. Sometimes I feel unattractive and noone wants me. This sucks.
--- sadness
Re: I miss her sadaboutdad: A few months ago there was a post about someone who's x put their dog to sleep because they couldn't care for it. That someone was CRUSHED!! They couldn't believe that the dog they had raised like a child was put to sleep because their x just didn't care enough about the dog to pick up the phone and ask them to take it. There was nothing even wrong with the dog!!! Somepeople just loose their heads, sounds to me like this person was going to hurt you sooner or later. Do anything to get them off your mind, a hobby, a friend, school, work, anything that will help you direct your attention to more positive things. To move on you must stop thinking about them!!!!
Re: I miss her tyrogers: Remember this...you don't miss her...you miss who she once was.
<<BIG BIG HUGS>>
BBH
Re: I miss her RobertMN: I know what your going through. It's a terrible feeling to know that the marriage is over. When my wife and I divorced 6 months ago, I really felt like sh** for a while, and I'm still sad today. Depression sets in and you think you are an awful person. The people on ojar were real helpful to me! Hang in there, it'll take some time; but it does get better. Peace
Re: I miss her fcard05: [quote"> Remember this...you don't miss her...you miss who she once was.[/quote">
Truer words were never spoken. a man that i respect a great deal, an old marine in his mid 60s, whose wife ripped out his heart and stomped on it told me the only way he got through it was by telling himself for all practical purposes his wife was dead. she may still look the same but make no mistake the girl you loved and married is gone forever. that line of thinking has helped me a great deal in my own situation. even when i think about her having an affair i tell myself that the man is not sleeping with my wife, he's sleeping with a stranger. whoever sweeps her off her feet will never have the privilege of knowing the sweet, caring and beautiful person i called my wife for 10 years... because that person is nothing but a memory.
