This damn ring lostboy: Ok,
So when my stbx left to be with her "girl friend" she left her engagement ring. I spent months picking out this ring, It's nearly the most beautiful that I'v even seen. I put so much effort and passion into finding the perfect ring. the cut, the setting.. It truly is grogeous, but there is so much negativity attached to it now. Part of me wants to keep it simply because it's so unique. Every woman (her friends included) that had ever laid eyes on it positively swooned over it's design. But I just don't know.
I have no children to give it to. No one to pass it on to. and everytime I think of it, what it represents all of the history attached to it it makes me ill.
It makes me so sad that something I worked so hard for, something uniqeuly suited to the one I loved and presented as a symbol of my sincerity and devotion was simply tossed back at me.
I almost wish she would have just kept it. At least then I might feel like all I gave her and wanted to give was not in vain. That at least some small piece of her wanted to remember and treasure what was once precious and true.
But there is no sign of that. What ever was, it's as though it never was.
I guess I should just sell the damn thing, But my God it is a beautiful ring.
Lost boy
Re: This damn ring Ksucks: sell it, 2 words E BAY!!!
Re: This damn ring twetifb: Since she gave it back to you, I think it'd be best to sell it. You should take the money and do/buy something wonderful for yourself!
Re: This damn ring lilly10: I agree sell it. You said that it makes you ill looking at it so rid yourself of it no matter how beautiful it may be!! Sad and difficult I know but we must let go of these things.
Re: This damn ring 1st fiddle: I agree, sell it. At least you loved her enough to get her a ring, I got a gig ole $5.00 ring that made me break out. :) I was even married to him for 18 years 11 months and that was the best he would for that. He thought it was a waste. Sell it, go somewhere happy. :)
