Apathy sigkapgirl: Well, I was driving home today, and there was a song on the radio that made me think of R. That rarely happens anymore. But when I thought of him, I was totally apathetic. Its like I was thinking of a stranger. I didn't have positive thoughts of happier times/good memories. I didn't have negative thoughts about the divorce/separation.
Then, sitting here just now, reading Tarheel's thread about yesterday being his anniversary, I realized that I totally missed our engagement anniversary (which was just two short years ago). It was two weeks ago. I didn't even notice.
So. I think I'm done. I've been through the angry stage. The denial stage. The crying stage. I've done it all. I do have memories of happy times, and those memories don't make me feel bitter or resentful. I do think of the divorce (because I still have 6 months to go), but at the same time, it rarely makes me angry anymore.
And my question then, is: how many of you can sincerely say that you're apathetic? Is that normal?
Re: Apathy mophead123: Its so weird cause I have gotten to a stage where I find this "apathy" the majority of the time. Maybe not to the 100% extreme but I do feel it. And it is such an amazing, empowering feeling. But I can't say that I am done as I still have days like today (if you look at my most recent post).
I think thats awesome that you completely missed the day. You truly have graduated. Congrats TH :D That's awesome...I know I will be there too when I stop having these once or twice a month moments.
All the best to you,
Mop
Re: Apathy AfterMath: I think so, yes, definately.
Re: Apathy charmed: Apathetic towards my ex-husband, yes.
Towards my ex-bf, no. It's too new, but more to the point, too unresolved. But, I feel I'm doing well, considering.
It sounds like you are doing great. I wish you the best ;D
`charmed
Re: Apathy BabygirlM: god i cant wait for that feeling....or NON feeling when i think or am reminded of him. i need that to come soon. i am going nuts
