Question for those in relationships sadaboutdad: I am in a happy relationship (now).... and this seems to pose some problems for me. How do I get guys to leave me alone and stop asking me out?? I don't mean to flirt, I think they take me just being nice as flirting (like there are no non-horny nice women out there). ::) My husband (3months and counting) isn't always there on my arm to scare them off, and I guess they don't always look at the ring finger.
I am just sick of it!! I feel like wearing a shirt that says "sorry, taken" so they will leave me alone. And for all those of you out there going "oh how HORRIBLE, guys ask you out" ::) and rolling your eyes at me, I just don't like letting people down or dissapointing them (I'm just about nerotic with it) I don't like hurting feelings. It makes me very unhappy to tell them, and sometimes I get the feeling they don't beleive me and that I am just making it up so I don't have to say I'm not intrested.
Is there any way I can let them down easier....
My favorite way right now is to say "My husband dosen't let me date" and laugh... but I still feel bad about it.
Re: Question for those in relationships tyrogers: You gotta buck up and let em have it. I had to. I did not like being "mean" either, but, hey, sometimes you just gotta. Let em think you are a bitch. Who cares. You are involved. Just tell em. It makes ya feel kinda bad at first, but after you do it a few times (trust me on this one)....it gets easier! ;)
Hey, if you get that shirt, I want one too! Either XS or S. THANKS! LOL
BBH :-*
Re: Question for those in relationships Beren: [quote author=Bubba's Bama Hottie FOREVER link=topic=19598.msg178896#msg178896 date=1128114217">
Hey, if you get that shirt, I want one too! Either XS or S. THANKS! LOL
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Hmmm.... more t-shirt ideas... cool!
Beren
Re: Question for those in relationships dgiirl: Are these guys friends or total strangers? If they are friends, they should know you have a husband. You could drop a few hints about how you and your husband went so and so. If they are total strangers just coming up to you, the funniest thing a friend of mine use to do is show her her wedding finger. Just stick the wedding finger up by itself. Made guys stop in their tracks lol
Re: Question for those in relationships tyrogers: LOL @ Beren!!
