Re: Friday nights suck AloneandCold: Yes its very okay to not be ready yet. Just give yourself exactly as much time as it takes, no more and no less.
It will get better I promise. Yes nothing is wrong with you.
If you need to talk just let me know. I'll be around.
Hope your night goes better. HUGS!!!!
Re: Friday nights suck in_search_of: When you are ready and comfortable with yourself, then you will know. Give it time, and give yourself space.
Take steps to separate yourself from him, even if its just going out and buying some underwear that you know he will never see.
Get rid of stuff around the house that was his stuff like that...
Friday nights suck missycristin: So I'm going on a rant again!!!
Why is it my really good days are ALWAYS followed by bad ones?? Can't I have two good days in a row?
Here it is Friday night and I'm home alone. This sucks. I miss having a boyfriend. I miss having someone to hang out with. I miss his unnerving channel surfing. I keep asking what is wrong with me and most of ya have tried to tell me nothing is wrong. Is that really true?
The lack of control is unbearable. I thought that once we cleared up our unfinished business, I could move on, but what I've discovered is that I don't want to move on. Is it okay for me to feel like this. I mean if I'm not ready then I'm not ready right?
Re: Friday nights suck missycristin: You know I feel like a total hypocrite some days posting here and giving advice when I'm a complete basket case.
Lots of you have said give it time. I'm tryin' kids, I really am. I'm reminded of a line from Shawshank redemption. "Time draws out like a blade" That is exactly how I feel
Re: Friday nights suck AloneandCold: We have all posted her and given advice when we were basket cases. its kind of the nature of the beast.
