Thank you, what an amazing week! admin: This week has been an immensely challenging week.
For many reasons both offline and on this site.
I would be remiss if I didn't take a moment to thank everyone that contacted me this week to offer support, suggestions and encouragement.
A surprising outcome this week has also been the number of people that signed up for Premium OJar. If anything I would have thought the opposite would have been the outcome.
This site continues to inspire me and contrary to rumor and myth I would rather play an insignificant role on this site than have anyone kissing my <snip - self censored ;) >
In fact, quite often weeks go by and I post nothing in public. My role is really to create a positive forum for people that are seeking to rebuild their lives after the breakup of their most important relationship.
There is no way any community can function without some structure. There is also no way that crying foul every time something doesn't go exactly the way you want it to go, works either.
Many times when there is a problem on the site I act behind the scenes to resolve the problem. Moveover, in the 4 plus years I have run this site I have never revealed the outcome of resolving a problem and by so doing, have prevented the embarrassment of individuals even when I become the target of contempt for not revealing private conversations and arbitrations.
There is nothing really to add except to say a 'heartfelt thanks' to those of you that have helped keep this site a special sanctuary on the web.
- Michael.