Friday night blues

Friday night blues tearsrunoneway: 3:27am.  just went out to a party and had a ok  time...thought of her alot. wonder if she is thinking of me. Everytime I talk to a girl why does it end with me talking about my break up? They dont want to hear it but somehow it comes out. There should be a 6 month grace period before you are allowed to interact with the opposite sex (or whatever your preference is) after a break up.  But i didnt call her. Its been almost a week...Im so proud of that it's crazy. Ok ...sleep before I jinx it and call....note to self: no Bob Dylan "time out of mind" after midnight...sure way to call....
Re: Friday night blues jadedangel: [color=navy"> Tears -- I am proud of you too -- it takes alot to keep NC.  Keep holding on.  Yeah -- a grace period should be given because I do alot of the same thing .. somehow it always manages to come out.  I think that is partially because it is part of you and what's going on in your life. 

But .. look at the bright side -- your going to a party and trying to move on with yourself -- that is a huge step!  Keep working on that -- and don't focus on the talking to her.[/color">
Re: Friday night blues changed4ever: Good for you on staying strong with the no contact.  It really does work, I swear by it.  Looks like you're getting there slowly but surely.  As far as dealing with the opposite sex, I give them a very brief summary, no gory details and I try to end on a positive note (saying stuff like "things happen for a reason and we're all better off now" or "my ex and I have managed to put our differences aside for the kids and that's all that really matters") I guess I do this because I want men to think that I'm adjusted (which sometimes I feel like I am and other times, well you know). I don't want to scare anyone off.  Hang in there.
Re: Friday night blues Samarra: Hey.....good for you on not calling.
You're better than me....I broke down after day 3.....and I dumped him (had to....he was a cheater) Keep focusing on how good it feels that you had the strength to stay away.....it WILL get easier.
And yup.....stay away from Bob.....for me it's the song "Nights in White Satin"....what a killer.

Uh oh....I'm trying to get that out of my head now! 

OK......it's better! :-)