:( Safetykc: Been a while since I vented. I feel a need so here I am...
Haven't had to much interaction with the X until recently as she has been emailing me because she has been missing mail. I told her yes, some things have been coming, but she should AGAIN switch it so it would stop!!!! >:( It's been 4 freaking months for god's sake.
So fine, every conversation, has inched further into our personal lives. Today I forgot to sign out of IM and she wrote me about nothing, she made muffins, big whoop, I told her I was busy, she asked about the mail again, dropped more talk about her new boyfriend, she loves mentioning stuff about him. I say I am really not interested. She aks me to PLEASE bring in any mail. I say fine, I will go through what I have and drop it off on her desk...first time I have been up there in a while.
Ahh...the lovely timebomb...Her board is FREAKING PLASTERED with pictures of her and the new guy, pics from her new place, from the company Xmas party, my old stepkids and his kids in Christmas photos together, family portraits.... :'( :'( :'(
Ugh ugh Ughh....why does this bother me. I mean we have been divorced a whole month now right?!?!!? I should be A-ok with this... :P
I wonder what the OM she was having an affair with here that broke us up thinks when he walks by her desk... :P :P
What a freaking mess....Certificates of acheivement in her maried name to me on one wall, her maiden name on her name tag outside of the cubicle wall....Her old married name on some things on another...Jesus....
I really didn't want to see those pictures ya'all....why would she have me drop that off at her desk...she had to have known...All in the spost where our pictures used to be, where pictures of me and the kids, now him and the kids.....ughhh
I think I am going to go throw up now...Damn it...I was doing so good.... :-X
See ya!
Re::( EZ: hi ya Safety,
first off if your gona pretend to be a texan then ......ya'll is one word ok ;)
yall :)
as for the OM that she had an affair with, well jmo but he is married too right? so i think he just looks at her as ..... how do yall youngersters say it ... a hook up,
sorry
as for all the pics and stuff....... i have no answer... does she know what she is doing or does she just not think?
Safety, throw up, cry, do whatever you feel.... it just means that you are a good guy with feelings, and there aint a dang thing wrong with that :)
peace and love my brother
Re::( Safetykc: I know...EZ-E..
I am already calming down...just a momentary flare-up of divorce herpes there... :-[
And as for YA'LL and YALL....well
What can I say....I did go to public schools.....
IN TEXAS!!!
;D
Thanks for the peace man...I could use it!
Re::( barelybreathing: You will never hear the word yall uttered from my lips and I live in Texas! Just can't do it. Must be that pacific upbringing!
Safety, oh Safety. Stay away from her. She lacks such compassion. To display her photos in such array is sad really. She is newly divorced. She lacks tact. To go from a husband, to a cheesy affair, to a "boyfriend" in such a short span of time. Gee whiz. Where is Dr. Freud when you need him?
Please stay away from her. She is toxic to your beautiful soul. She does not represent what you do.
You deserve so much more.
BB
Re::( picadilly: Safetyman,
BB is so right in this. To go from one relationship to another & another again in the span of a few months. This waman truly is the emotional vampyre we talked about. It seems she needs that emotional connection with someone to vindicate her existance. Even if that connection is bad for the other person, she cares not so much as she knows she can still effect you. It also does not seem that she will get her mail redirected, so if she asks for her mail agian, tell her she can pick it up from your desk, or maybe drop it off at her managers desk for her. :P
Try not to let her get to you, this sad sad person.
Be well & we'll talk later.
