Re: slapped in the face BONILLAK: Oh not according to Einstein himself...he says if I wait until everything is finalized I can go on welfare, get all kinds of assistance and he won't be responsible because he will be paying child support but since it won't be enough for me to live on I will get help from the state! He said they will help me with rent and with daycare if I want to work! He lives in his own little dream world now a days. I think he is starting to have 2nd thoughts but I told him not to call here and complain to me, look in the closest mirror and complain into it and the face looking back is the one to blame. Then I told him have a nice day, talk to you later when you call to talk to the kids.
Re: slapped in the face Lumpy: [quote author=unhappy link=topic=20519.msg189965#msg189965 date=1129660474">
gotta point this out--
if you go on welfare HE WILL HAVE TO PAY IT BACK!!
he is so dumb.
good luck to you -stay strong
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Absolutely right. The government will not support his children. They will collect on anything they pay out from him.
Re: slapped in the face starzluv: the amount of money he makes, they would take alot more from him for child support, and the state would keep it all and then give you very little in assistance. in Pa. a family of 4 get $497 a month to live off. and that's the max amount. if my H was ordered to pay $1200 a month child support, the state would take the $1200 and still only give me $497. sometimes it just doesn't pay to go on welfare.for help in rent you would have to go through housing. (section 8 or public, and if you are on cash assistence you would have to go public housing). and if he thinks he will get out of paying it back he's wrong. he will have to pay back all the cash assistence.
Re: slapped in the face seyfert: It sounds like he is trying to tell you what to do. It sounds like he wants his cake.......
Good luck getting a job.
Re: slapped in the face flyaway: YES! He is definately grabbing at straws here.....but you are so going the right way with this! I think you are making awesome choices.....your kids are so fortunate to have such a strong mom!
In fact, I think you should talk to michael about fast tracking you to "God" status around here....... ;D ;D ;)
We all could benefit and learn from your actions!
Yay bonillak!
Flyaway
