First visitation! BONILLAK: Well guys, stbx has visitation tomorrow for the first time. I will get a 6hr break from my kids. I will miss them but it will feel good. I'm going to lunch with my mom and out shopping. I'm sure I'll return to them all here at home because he will have no clue what to do with them for 6hrs. I kinda hope they drive him nuts.LOL Please say a little prayer that all goes well. This will be the first time for him to walk to this door since the day he left 7wks ago. My kids are going to be so hurt when he leaves again. I do hope he takes some of his clothes since he left with nothing but that will be hard for the kids to see too. Its so unfair how hurt kids get through all this. I hope I don't cry, I don't cry for me and him, I cry because my kids hurt. It is kinda sad even though I don't want him, 17yrs with someone is a long time and even though its over, its strange, almost like he just should be here, like a fixture or something. I just hope he watches the littlest one well as stbx is kinda dopey that way.LOL I hope we are both civil to each other. He also doesn't have a car so I am loaning him one and I hope he doesn't mess it up as he always breaks something.LOL I can't wait for some me time though and need a new pair of jeans. Since our marriage went downhill exactly 1 year ago I have gone from a size 16 to a 5!!! STBX can eat his heart out....maybe I should strut around singing, "Don'cha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me, etc, etc. Don'cha?Doncha?" He will be here at 10am...my house is spotless and I am looking hot(sorry I am a little confident these days! LOL)...I surely don't want him but I do want him to see what he is missing! Am I cruel? Nah, maybe just a little vindictive.LOL
Re: First visitation! lonelywithouthim: you go girl! lol i hope everything goes well and that he does see what he's missing out on. I can't wait until I have my baby, get back to my regular size, and I can say.... see what you threw away? now I have someone better than you and you have nothing.. YOU were the lucky one.. ;D
Re: First visitation! OnceAgain: Size 16 to a 5? I had to read that twice...
I hope that only half of it was the "breakup diet", but either way, I bet you're feeling great, and as petty as it is/sounds, how good does it feel to show that off!?!
You know, life is funny (big surprise), when you thought you would be the weakest, you can actually be the strongest. I'm pulling for you!
Re: First visitation! manda: Why don't you just play the song in the background...softly, but not too softly, ya know? I think that would be awesome!!! Do it. Do it!
Praying that all goes well for you.
ps. Today is my son's first day out with his Dad too. But he is 15, and so it's a little different. My son would rather be here on his computer, with his friends skateboarding, or playing a game...so he has his work cut out for him.
Re: First visitation! Falcon554: Glad we dont really have vistation per say, I get my daughter anytime and anywhere I want, just call my wife and she says sure come get her. Thank god we have that going for us. We both trust eachother when it comes to her. Makes it easier on my baby girl.
