The plot thickens Dire Wolf: Yesterday I found out a very interresting piece of information. As it turns out my stbx is now pregnant. I think its so funny that the woman who wanted to run away from all of her responsabilities is now going to have to deal with having an infant at 32(not saying thats bad for most people but for little Miss self indulgent it is). After my son was born almost 7 years ago I got fixed because we decided 2 kids was enough.
This is funny as hell to me and it reaffirms even stronger in me that I want nothing to do with a reconcilliation(not that I wanted it anyway anymore). Now she is tied to this man, that everyone but her finds incredibly annoying, for life. That relationship is gonna be in trouble in the long run. In the span of less than 7 weeks she had an affair, moved out on her family and in with him, moved into a house they are renting, and now are having a new baby. Thats alot in such a short time. The shit will hit the fan when the realities of this situation kick in.
I do feel bad for my kids. She is already barly putting in face time with my kids so I can only imagine how it will be when there is an infant in the mix. She didn't want me to know until after the divorce so I wouldn't use it to prove her affair but everyone is on my side and I was told yesterday. Her due date is the 2nd week of June which means she got pregnant the week after she left. This guy is a bum and has never held a job longer than 2 months and he just got a new one 1 1/2 weeks ago so its just a matter of time now. lol
Its funny that the day she left one of the things I said to her is, "I hope you get f-ing pregnant." Sometimes wishes do come true. ;D Goodbye, good luck, and good ridance.
Re: The plot thickens manda: I hate it for your kids! They'll have to deal with it somewhat.
But I certainly understand why you think it is her just reward for being such a sh*t.
What comes around...goes around...
Re: The plot thickens jonpc: I wish my ex would do something as stupid as that so it would be easier for me to give up on her. It isn't enough that she is in a serious relationship with someone else. She told me he had a vascectomy--like I wanted to know that. I still love her and would take her back today.
Re: The plot thickens pflow3000: The sad thing is that this newly conceived child...didn't ask for it either.
If you could guarantee me that kids made people GROW UP each time and that everyone handles responsibility the right way then I'd be a little more convinced...but for now...I have to pray for that child and hope that he/she has a life of happiness because as it stands it sounds like he/she is going to be starting out of the gate with some serious hurdles to go over.
