I really hate this stupid man. AloneandCold: So my kids spent the night somewhere last night and the ex was supposedly at work. (He works saturdays). When I got up this morning I figured hey I have the house to myself. I got up walked (in my birthday suit since that is how I sleep) to the bathroom to take a shower. (At least I closed the door) I took my shower then walked back to my room (still in my birthday suit) to get dressed. I get dressed and come out of my room, turn towards the stairs (which is facing my ex's bedroom, which is across from the bathroom), and I see an eye peaking at me from behind his door. I about jumped out of my skin until I realized it was him, now I'm just mad. He was being as quiet as he could so he could watch me walk around naked. Apparently he stayed home from work (and I was looking forward to a childless, ex-less morning). This man has no decency or sense of another's personal privacy. GRRRRRRR......
Dec, Dec, Dec, Dec, Dec!
Re: I really hate this stupid man. PiscesGoddess: Grrrrrrrrrr.. and ick! He's that desperate that he is reduced to spying on you? In his sick little mind did he think you were doing it for him? UCK UCK UCK.. reminds me sooo much of my ex.. >:(
Im hoping Dec gets here for you even faster!
>:(
Pisces
Re: I really hate this stupid man. jadedangel: [color=navy"> It almost sounds like he is getting worse.... I don't get what his deal is --- your living in a prison so to speak .. that is only held by him.
I know ... December will be here soon ... hang in there Bug.[/color">
Re: I really hate this stupid man. lost enigma: OHH Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
He is weird....
Hey, i am lost (why did it end, cause i can see some creepiness from him) But once again ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Re: I really hate this stupid man. AloneandCold: Okay I left him. The reason I left him was for seven years (eight with separation) he;
1. Was a compulsive liar (about big and small stuff, I swear he doesn't even think about it, just lies)
2. Has some sort of problem (bipolar?) and he pulled the Dr. Jeckle, Mr. Hyde act on a daily basis.
3. Never stood up for me when his family said nasty things.
4. Pulled stupid stuff like telling me he didn't know what to get me for my birthday so he didn't, or coming home from work on valentines day and seeing all the effort I put into stuff and saying "oh, lets go get you a teddy bear", or spending another valentines day (with me very pregnant) sitting on his dads floor watching tv while I dry heaved from the smell in his dads house. (I could keep going but you get the idea, something like this pretty much every holiday).
5. Liked sexual things I didn't and after I told him no would get mad then just wait till I was asleep and take what he wanted anyway.
6. Constantly ignored me. Even if I was just talking to him about something I found funny it was like talking to a wall.
7. Couldn't be bothered to take a shower or brush his teeth except once a month or so.
8. I wasn't allowed to have my own friends and occasionally hang out with them because he would get jealous that I was having fun without him. (I don't drink or anything of the sort so "fun" is mainly just hanging out with my friends"
9. He was however allowed to go out as often as he liked and I did a lot of picking his drunk butt up at 2-am.
10. He really isn't very smart and I'm kind of a geek so we didn't have much in common or much to talk about.
11. He never did what he said he was going to do.
12. He is beyond lazy
13. Completely obsessed with sex and could never give me a hug even without grabbing my breast or something similar.
14. then on top of it sometime in the last year of being together he decided to tell me (after sex one day) that he was in love with someone else as well as me. (a coworker) I have no idea if they did anything or not. What is really sad is this is not why I left him.
Hmm thats all I can think off of the top of my head. :)
Edited to add; He would get mad if I cried too, completely pissed him off. He would either ignore it or yell at me for it.
