Re: I'm fooling myself
I feel for you, I really do. We will all come out the other side of this. It's just so hard on the weak days, the doubts, the panic, the regrets all come flooding to the forefront.
I'm here for you anytime.
Re: I'm fooling myself turboss: feel, congratulations on finding someone who sounds as if they are "adoring" you. I can't wait for this to happen to me, I want to feel wanted so bad again. I just want someone to look at me like that.
Turboss
I'm fooling myself Erin: I can't do this.
It has been almost 3 months since he walked out. I'm a zombie. I don't want this, I never wanted this. It is all so stupid and I can't believe that everything is being thrown away so easily.
When we talk now, it is so angry and hostile. He wants me to sell the house and I don't want to. He is now trying to pressure me into it by refusing to pay any support. He is being so unreasonable in his requests and accusations. He is going to be lucky if he walks away with anything financially in this. (This isn't just me saying this, this is a fact.)
I hate this. I just want to give up. Would selling the house, giving him everything that he wants make this all stop?
I want my life back. I want him back. I don't know how to do this. I want to know. I want to fix this.
How can I do this?
Re: I'm fooling myself hardened_heart1970: hello spinning. you cant stop this UNLESS you really see a change in him. but the way it sounds, he is an azzhole.
you can stop it all, but to sacrifice your mental wellbeing, and to have to be a door mat, is it worth it?
trust me, let him play that game. get him in court. he will pay one way or another....... he is playing childish games.....
3 months in. you will see some better light shortly. go no contact with the azzwipe, and it will help you alot better. thats what happened for me. it really works...
holler if you need me. im here. we can all help you. have a good day...
Re: I'm fooling myself jadedangel: [quote author=spinningincircles link=topic=21044.msg196680#msg196680 date=1130681046">
I want my life back. I want him back. I don't know how to do this. I want to know. I want to fix this.
How can I do this?
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[color=navy"> I know a bit of how you feel -- I just want it back. I just want my life back -- the one I knew and was sure of a year ago. I want that person who devoted himself to me and promised to always love me.
But -- does this person even exist anymore? You want him back the way you knew him -- is he that person anymore? Sadly, you probably are fooling yourself to think there is a fix for it --- you two have too much hatred and anger .. things have evolved from the loving couple you once were -- Smo-kin is right .. he sounds like a bonified jerk.
I don't know how to do it -- coz I am in the same place as you. But, I think first you have to realize he isn't what you want --- what you had is what you want .. and he has changed too much of himself to have that. It wasn't his right ... but the jerk went ahead and did it anyway. Hang in there -- we are here. [/color">
