Why is he doing this????
I have had no contact with the STBX since October---would you not get it that I'm not coming back?? GEESH!!! Just let me go already---he's obviously already moved on. I think he's doing this just to spise me. Fine...guess we'll settle in court then. Let the judge sign for him.
Last night I cried myself to sleep after realizing he'd found someone new already and I went through our wedding pictures because he wants half. Today after talking with my lawyer, I was concentrating on keeping my BP at a decent level. I swear...if I don't end up in a stress center by the time this whole thing is over...it'll be a miracle.
I'm so glad I have to work saturday (heart day). Seems appropriate in my opinion. :-\
btw: this venting space was a good idea! ;D
Re:Why is he doing this???? faegonsgold: Now he has a girlfriend??? geesh--that didn't take long!! huh...and i thought he loved me.....oh well.....so why not sign the papers???? :-\
Why is he doing this???? ChristyM: More than likely the girlfriend won't last. He's trying to find something to fill that need that he has. I wouldn't take it too hard that he "found" someone so quickly - it's probably a rebound. I doubt it will end up lasting.
Re:Why is he doing this???? faegonsgold: It may not last, but I feel so sorry for the girl. I just don't want to see her go through what I went through. Especially since I can tell he's not "healed" and he still has problems to deal with. If only I could warn her.... :-\
Why is he doing this???? ChristyM: I know what you mean, but she should be smart enough to see the signs. That's the big reason why a person should think long and hard about getting involved with someone in the middle of a divorce or even fresh out of one. I know I've questioned my own motives sometimes. I think my s2bx will continue to make the same mistakes because he hasn't gotten help to understand why he has the feelings he does. BUT, I am not responsible for him now. What he does or who he sees will have to be worked out by him and only him.